Hey Hey,

What are we talking about today? Probably one of the most fundamental parts of game to date, Core Purpose.

Before you approach a girl ask yourself why? Sounds silly right, but you will be surprised. There are too many wishy washy reasons as to why you think you should be approaching this girl:-

I need to improve my PUA Skill Set

To impress my friends

I think I’m meant to

No, the whole purpose of approaching the girl in the first place is because of something, a reason, not what your friends tell you, not what some Guru tells you but actually deep down inside of you there are desires as a man. Society will try and suppress these desires by telling you to

Pay for dinner when taking a girl on a date

Don’t be too forward

Don’t speak when not being spoken too

To be quiet

Girls don’t enjoy sex

Don’t look at girls in public

Look at the Popular Magazines that people buy these days with the dating advice, the fashion advice, the lifestyle advice, the celebrity gossip. These articles are just written by people, often times by people who have very little in-field experience on the subject that they are actually talking about. Television is mostly apart from the occasional show just mind numbing entertainment that re-enforces societies views which are, to get girls you need to be rich, good looking, famous, money will make you happy, don’t think for yourself. etc

This is taking you away from being able to get in touch with your core as a man, and of course without actually being taught about this stuff then how would you ever know? It would take a lot of years of trial and error.

The point of knowing why you are approaching a girl can’t be emphasized enough though, why are you approaching this girl?

Is it just that she is physically hot?

Are you just horny for any girl right now?

Is she dressed in an interesting way and you are just curious

Does she have a really good style?

Is it that she has a perfect ass that you want to take home?

Does she have good energy and you what to find out more?

Have a think about it and actually act on your core purpose, you have a reason to go up to her. Some of the reasons above might be a little crude or not what the girl wants to think in a particular state, but guess what women have those feelings too. Sometimes a girl will just want to be taken and that is perfectly okay, no judgments because it’s called being human.

A good way to tap into your core is to take a second and think about what girls you like? what porn do you like? what type of personalities or styles do you like? Trust your judgment here and roll with it, and when you are out do this too. This 3 set in the corner of the room do I like any of these girls? I wonder what they would be like to hangout with….

The pictures I post in my blog aren’t random photos, they are pictures that I find to my core attractive. That’s not to say that I will always find that type of girl attractive because I’m evolving and dynamic and the more life experience I get the more I will change, and that’s fine too. Maybe some of the photo’s wouldnt be the HB9 or 10’s that the seduction community would look up to, but I really dont care, because if I ever did I wouldn’t be being true to myself.

When you are approaching with a core purpose you will come off confident, dominant, knowing what you want, congruent, real. These are all very attractive qualities, you will then need to say something……

And this is how to construct your opener on the fly:-

“Hey I love your style and had to come over and introduce myself, Hi my name is [your name]“

“Hey you are so sexy, I had to come over and introduce myself, Hi my name is [your name]“

“Hey I love your legs I had to come over and introduce myself, Hi my name is [your name]“

Then you can proceed to talking and escalating how you want, if you are even thinking in set “what should I say next” then you are in the wrong frame of mind. You should be thinking what do I want next.

So if you want to kiss her then try to kiss her, if she says No then cool no problem, chill for a bit continue talking and try again later. Its cool because she is just playing hard to get or she isn’t there yet, no worries I’ll get her later. If you want to dance then pick her up and take her to dance “come on lets dance, its time to dance!”

Manipulation and lines are not cool, use them to help get yourself a little experience sure but very quickly they should be dropped. Tapping into your core is sustainable and very very attractive it’s when you are “gaming” without actually having to do anything. You are just being YOU.

p.s. If the girl is not into you for real and she tells you to leave her alone then that’s cool go talk to someone else. Just most of the time this is not the case and the guy will be sitting there thinking of the next thing to say and the girl just wants him to kiss her.

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