I did my best that is all that counts! Did you do your best though?
Imagine this scenario student approaches a girl but she blows him out and he come back all depressed. “I tried my best and its still not good enough.”
I now put a gun to his head and say you are going to die along with all your friends and family if you don’t approach her with all your enthusiasm in the most positive way you possibly can. Now Go!!
**Student comes back**
Student: cool that was a lot better.
Kingy: Do you think you could have approached her with even more enthusiasm and positive energy though?
Student: Yes Probably.
Well why??? I just said if you don’t approach with all you can give then everyone you love including yourself is going to die. We need to talk 
You have one last chance but this is really it!! I want you to be in the most enthusiastic and positive state you can be when you approach this next girl.
Same scenario and the student comes back yet again telling me that he could probably approach even better next time.
You can always raise the bar higher depending on the state that you are currently in. The most important skill is state management, the information to pickup and how to open is all around the Internet, you don’t even need that much of it.
Do you know someone that has something they need to change? They know they need to change it, they want to change it, they even know how to change it but they still don’t change it!
This is the primary reason why the vast majority of people that come into the Pick Up Community don’t manage to change themselves. Even if they manage to sift through all the community noise and find the correct path which exactly lays out how to get the success they want. Despite all of this they still don’t manage to get the abundant lifestyle with women that they desire.
The problem is not lack of information: a known fact is that 80% of success is psychology and 20% is facts, and most people know all the facts that they need already.
As you change your physiology you change your state, in this example i told the student to approach in the most enthusiastic positive way possible. This meant he spoke faster, he was louder, he moved his body more, his eyes were wider, his smile was bigger and all those other mannerisms came into play. Not only did the interaction go better but also because he had changed his physiology from the slouched slow one from before to the now open confident enthusiastic smiling one his internal state changed too.
When coming back to me his state was more confident, happier, extra positive and now he can see ways where he can approach even better, again and again. You see where I am going with this? It is more advanced but ultimately simple, train yourself to manage your own state from within rather than relying on events.
This stuff is all covered in bootcamp, you are taught how to generate you own state for yourself at will (the click of a finger). So instead of going back home and then thinking damn i wish my instructor was here you don’t need him anymore, its time to Rock! 
Kingy
p.s. Checkout the Free Openers E-Book, it is not a complete product like the Text Game E-Book but you will find some cool openers inside that will help to start a converstaion.
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Hey man,
Great post, has really helped with my game.
Keep them coming!
hey thanks for the support man.
Hey. you speak the truth man. it’s all about your emotional state. controlling your state is the most important thing at the PUA mindset. i’m not so good at it yet. but i’m getting better. can anybody give me some tips how to do it?
Hey man, there are lots of techniques u can do: jump up and down, stand up straight, keep a smile on your face, sing a song. its almost impossible to feel in a bad mood when your bodylanguage is very posititive. Zen Meditation/Zazen helps remove negative thought loops which can change your state. Hope that helps
hey man great post. I find that if you somewhat steal a girls attention from another boy, this always helps with attraction? I hate this getting done to me though so there must be a better way cos I do it a LOT by accident cos of adhd so i dhv without meaning to, but piss off a lot of boys. anyway suggestions for how i may be able to dhv this well without stealin attention etc?
you mean you steal attention from your wings or random guys talking to women?
well im at uni, i have friends that i go on the pull with and guess i might do it then without realising for the sake of tryin to make things work. but yeah random guys out n about, i’d rather enjoy the company of everyone and involve everyone as apposed to making it into a competition, do you get what i’m saying?
I would seperate the two types of communication because they are very different. Social and Pick Up.
So if there is a girl that you like and the connection is ON then isolate her away from the rest. Take her to the bar or some chairs for a bit.
If there is no “target” then just hangout. Most guys will get jellous, try to amog or undermine you unless they are very cool with lots of options. Because seeing you pick up in front of them will make them feel bad for not being able to do it.
I totally agree that state must come from within and you are the person that brings the good feelings.
However I am not sure that you should try to be as enthusiastic and as positive as is absolutely possible it will scare people.
Most people myself included have to raise their energy but you have to calibrate it enough so that you do not seem like a try-hard