If you want to be authentic, direct and natural in your pick up then meditation is a FANTASTIC tool!
You want to become a Jedi of Pick Up.
Natural vs Routine pua game comes down to this. Do you want to learn to approach feeling entitled by being yourself or feeling entitled because you have learnt lines?
Long-term – If you want to be a cool guy, have lots of friends, great relationships with everyone, women like you for you and your RESULTS are better than anyone you know, then natural is the way to go.
If you want to become a frame control guy, has trouble making friends, have difficulty maintaining relationships, can only get results when things are going your way, attract low self-esteem women, then routine pick up is the way to go.
Natural game for the win and meditation is the tool to give yourself access to your inner awareness. With meditation you will be able to tell when you are entering into a bad state and then correct it. In the past I’d become sad or depressed and I had no idea why. I probably didn’t even think about it back then and instead just thought “I’m depressed” or “I’m sad”. When you meditate you will become aware of your thought patterns which can trigger a lower conscious state. Consciousness is not some spiritual mumbo but instead, simply, the level of joy you are in at the moment.
Guilt -> Resentment -> Anger -> Pride -> Acceptance -> Purpose -> Love -> Joy
By knowing this and understanding yourself enables you to be able to keep yourself in a high state. I mostly function around the Purpose and Love mark and jump up to Joy but I can drop down to resentment if something really bad happens. In a night club it would have to be something that annoys me to the core, generally I’m happy and positive. If something does drop me down, then because of meditation, I’m able to quickly recognise this and work my way up the levels again.
“The hottest woman in the club just blew me out” -> “Damm it, this isn’t going how I want” -> *BY PASS PRIDE* -> “Oh well it is what it is” -> “Lets start hitting up the approaches again for practice anyway” -> “I Love you second hottest girl ” – “I love you too ”
This is similar to the thought processes I have cultivated in my brain. Now if I get dropped down to that lower level I’m quickly able to recognise it and then get back to where I was before.
Do you see the benefits of being able to do this? Being angry but trying to pretend to be confident and happy is very fake and women can always tell. This is often the main reason for blowouts. I mentioned in a previous post that blowouts have very little to do with your value but instead that you just weren’t authentic enough. She wants to know that you are being real with her or as we also call it, NATURAL!
On PUA Method Bootcamp we regularly meditate with the students. The students do approaches, work on their game, then we do some meditation and press the emotional reset button! After the meditation we hit up the girls again. Push the body and get as much growth as possible and then EMOTIONAL RESET!
The brain is just like any muscle in the body. In fact the whole of your body is made up only of two fluids (blood and lymph) plus cells. That is it! So train your mind to be focused and clear through meditation. This is the path of a PICK UP JEDI, clean foods (raw ideally), meditation, positive thinking and an abundance of pick up skills and techniques.
On Bootcamp we don’t just teach innergame but we will give you a TON of outergame too. Our ideal is for you to “Get Confident and Become a Master Pick Up Artist”, this is our goal. So ideally we want you to be as natural and authentic approaching as possible because this will allow you to start to believe in yourself. That being the case, if you are running out of things to say, or feel you need a little more attraction material then we will give you it.
I’ve trained in routine pick up for years and I know every trick in the book. What you might notice about learning a routine though is that when you learn a routine with a strong natural game foundation it transforms from an attraction spike to an attraction A-BOMB! It goes Nuclear and you get lots more attraction from it because of the solid foundation. You must develop the solid foundation first though for it to sit on.
Anyway guys I’m out, remember to do your daily meditation, twenty minutes a day is a good starting point!
Talk to you again soon,
Peace n Love,