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If I had two pieces of advice for you only they would be to approach and stay in the moment.
Always remember that your primary goal is to stay in the present moment. When sarging your secondary goal is to take action and approach the girl. So even when you are walking up to her stay present with that current moment. So when you are walking, you are walking, all good, when you are running, all good, when you tap her on the shoulder, you are tapping.
There are never any problems only the slight challenge of knowing what to say. That comes with time and training. Also it really doesn’t matter what you say because real attraction is generated from not trying. If you can just “be” rather than looking to tee up the next attractive thing to say it communicates all the right things. It communicates that you don’t feel the need to impress this girl, which sub-communicates that you feel entitled. You have real self-esteem.
Real chat is done from a place of abundance and in the moment, with no agenda or seeking to control. Instead the ability to just surrender to what is, this is a vibe which people can’t help but want to be around. You don’t need every girl to like you because you like YOU. You are completely happy and surrendered to the present moment. And because you don’t need her to like you, ironically 99% of girls will like you.
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All these videos are from the PUA Method Office in London. The second day on our bootcamp we show the students infield videos of us approaching. Full HD and Stereo sound so they get to hear and see everything that we do to get the results that they saw the night before. Sometimes in a really loud venue it is not possible to hear everything the instructor says. Especially because you are doing your own approaches too.
We have been doing back to back bootcamps over the last few months at FULL capacity. I love teaching, it is my playtime. Most of the week I’m focusing on the company. My weekdays are usually 12 hour days. I wake up at 10am and I don’t stop working until 10pm plus I’ll do 30 approaches everyday to keep my skill set tight for the weekend. My work ethic is scary. Even my mum who is very much a pro hard worker tells me to take breaks and not work so hard. I love PUA so much, to me it is not work, it is my passion.
So when Bootcamp comes round each weekend it is my chance to let off some steam! The bootcamp is the most refined process that it can possibly be. Over the last five years we have tweaked the bootcamp in every area. Our main goal is to get the best possible student results over the weekend. Everyone that we help transform is an individual but because the instructors have seen over a thousand students we have seen every stereotype before. Whatever specific sticking point or belief you have about yourself that prevents you from being phenomenal with women we have SEEN IT before!
It is 100% necessary to get your skills with women down in my opinion. I mean what is the alternative? Making do with some woman who you aren’t that attracted to or that you argue with? Finding a women who is ready to settle down and be the beta guy to look after her kids all the while she is probably out with some alpha guy who makes her excited.
There is no option! Life is short.
I see guys living their lives through fear. Caring what the girl thinks, living a life of scarcity. “I hope that girl likes me”, “If only this one girl would date me”. Instead of living a life of complete abundance and enjoying something so inherent and simple as being good with women.
Peace n Love,
Kingy
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Hiya Kingy,great pieces of advice there mate,learnt alot from this,keep the video coming.
Awesome!
I’m also finally getting a few of friends so far to be wingmen and to only go out to meet girls. I hope this will help me too, like it did for you.
How do I get my friend to approach? He goes out and says nothing! Does this most of the times he goes out. He might say a word or two once I approach the girl and start chit chatting, but he won’t make that first encounter.
I tried being nice to him, that doesn’t work.
So I tried being a dick to him, that doesn’t work.
Do I give up? Let him do his own thing?
Sometimes I think guys with AA have ego issues. Not a lack, but an overabundance of it. They think the girl will go on about them for days and how they talked to her. Oddly enough I got over my AA by realizing that introducing myself to a girl won’t affect the universe at all. if i crash and burn it won’t stay on anybody’s mind that long, except my own if i let it.
It’s not approach anxiety, it is “neurological friction” (btw who is buying that shit anyway, the nlp i don’t think so), it’s an internal conflict… caused by external factor (that be fear of approaching woman)…why, cause you draw yourself a future picture of: interaction’ll go bad and everyone’ll see it, and there we are again.
So the solution is to hung out all the fellings and experience the ‘thing’ non attachable.
I tried that, it doesn’t work. I’m sure, you guys have tried it and it didn’t worked either and guess what (NO ONE can do that, except Terminator Very Happy) we’re all humans, you can’t push a big red button on our body, where it says “FEELINGS OFF”.
We’re not Spock, from Star Track, we’re real human beings, with real feelings
Kingy I can’t thank you for introducing me to this stuff enough. I was seriously messed up for so long. I cared what people thought about me constantly. My mind was always racing to the future, trying to control things. I’ve seen the light
I sarge almost every girl unless if she is really ugly like EWWWWW!
Opening sets just gets me into state and talkative mood. Plus, even the ones your not into, get them in your social circle so you can meet her friends and hook up with them.
One of the hottest girl I slept with, met through a girl that I sarged who was engaged. I kid you not, she is basically a “pimp” She comes out and parties with and brings her single friend.
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Right there. Stop reading nonsense on how to get over it, cause the trick is that simple. Idc if you’re so damn nervous you feel like you’re going puke on the girl, just do it.
Be like nike nigga, and do it.
totally agree with you about getting into states! like right now im supposed to be revising for uni exams and this is far more appealing than any political crisis on the 1800?s!!
Im headed in a tour round europe next month, so it should be a perfect time to think f#*k it lets take some dips!!