Hey so today marks the count down to the official launch of PUA Method Planet.


The PUA Method Planet site is passing even my expectations and over the next week we are working 24/7 making sure that all its features are performing perfectly, ready for launch.


February 9th @ 12PM GMT is the super hot official launch so be sure to get signed up.


Here is a video I just got done recording on how to remove fear permanently. Fear is a lower level form of consciousness and a quick way to get a blowout. The typical PUA will carry some sort of pick up related fear with him. This can include approach anxiety, social anxiety and also escalation anxiety. We currently live in a society that teaches us to remove symptoms rather than to heal the actual problem. In other words, avoid pain and take the quick fix, rather than taking longer to heal the reason for the problem you have in the first place. The benefit of taking the time to heal the problem is that it won’t come back, whereas if you just remove the uncomfortable symptom then it will keep returning over again.





You can remove social anxiety symptoms from approaching regularly and this is something that I highly recommend. You should do this as well as looking for the reason for the anxiety in the first place. You must be a patient pick up Jedi and take the longer route, away from routines and adopting fake behaviours. Although on some level my ego would love to see a load of little Kingys’ running around. I mean how cool would that be?! *evil laugh* Think of all the power I would have :p However, truely this is not something that I desire. I only want to help you become the best at picking up and keeping beautiful women as you possibly can be. And to get to that level you must choose the path of the Jedi.


The number one thing PUA Method teaches is to go out and approach, this is most important. If you aren’t approaching then nothing is happening which is why our instructors are all approach machines. On top of this you should also be starting to look inside yourself and healing the problems that you have. We are all born perfect but somewhere along the way we get a little bit messed up. We don’t know how to deal with something and so trap it. The worst thing you can do is mask over this thing with a routine or fake behaviour and hope that it goes away or no one see’s it, because it wont. It will stay with you forever. It takes a lot of energy to pretend to be someone that you are not and girls always know. They see a little bit of ego and go “ahhhh he is damaged, I understand now”.





You will notice that you attract who you are into your life. My girlfriends have all been mirror images of exactly who I was at that time in my life. So become confident, authentic and loving and attract that type of woman into your life. These women are usually naturally beautiful. A girl that was never bullied as a child because she was naturally beautiful and cool, so she never got damaged. These are the women that you will attract when you heal all of your insecurities and fears. You will be able to relate with these high self-esteem girls easier than other types of women. The high ego women tend to have been less beautiful and so got called names and then compensate for this later in life. A stripper for instance looks good in all her make up and high heels. Why not enjoy that?!?! … but sometimes when the make up is removed she can be average looking and ugly on the inside. For the record I believe everyone is beautiful but you get my point


Anyway I’ve got to get back to working on the launch for the red hot PUA Method Planet. Also there is Bootcamp this weekend and this is going to be my time off, going to let loose in a big way, epic!


I hope you enjoy the video and looking forward to reading your comments,


Peace n Love,


Kingy


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Hey man,


I’ve got a video from last weekend’s PUA Method Bootcamp Jan 2012 for you. Jordan breaks down into even smaller detail the Direct Street Approach and his experiences with his own looks and body.


Oh Yeah BTW


The PUA Method Forum is fast approaching!


It is looking better than even I could have imagined. The last month has involved my technical team and I working on getting it ready twelve hours everyday. The only breaks I have are my daily practice sarging sessions and twenty minutes meditation a day. Last weekends PUA Method Bootcamp was my first proper time off since I spent one weekend in Bath four weeks ago.


If you fancy checking out Bath or taking a girl then I really recommend it. The Thermae Spa is orgasmic. The water comes directly from underground and they use their systems to actually cool it to a really nice and warm thirty two degrees. The main pool is on the roof of the spa with amazing views out over Bath countryside, seriously good day out! You can be sensible and just stand by the side of the pool or have a bit of fun too. I did handstands and chatted up a pregnant woman, typical Kingy :p Also there are the Roman Baths which you can’t bath in but they do have some interesting and cool things to look at.





I can’t say too much about the PUA Method Forum, but it will be a whole community. A MASSIVE FREE VALUE dating resource. Get your questions answered by the instructors, get FREE INFIELD videos, regular articles, also somewhere you can find wings that study natural game, love to open and are working on high self-esteem too. I’m really excited about this and how much of a tool it will be to help you!





Checkout the clip of Jordan teaching on Bootcamp above. Bootcamp is so much fun, I always look forward to teaching with such passion. The most satisfying part to it all is seeing the transformation changes to the students at the end of the weekend. Five minutes after student1 left I got a text from him saying “just number closed a girl outside the pub”. Way to implement!


Lets chat soon,


Peace n Love,


Kingy


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How To Stop Fidgeting!


Hello everyone! Jordan is back with another blog! I would like to talk about the importance of not fidgeting, and how to control ones body movement in terms of interaction.


When a woman, or even a guy, spots someone fidgeting, this can be portrayed as a sign of feeling uncomfortable or feeling nervous.


Especially when you are chatting up a high value woman AND feeling nervous!  As soon as those hands start moving in an uncontrollable fashion, or the body starts rocking uncontrollably, she will instantly see right through this and most possibly portray you as a guy not worthy.


Sometimes these actions occur without even knowing.  So how does one control these actions?





Well, firstly in order to sort out those nervous actions that occur without knowing, one must overcome the “fear” of chatting up a hot woman. You must learn how to stop fidgeting.


I found myself in the past, during my self development process, that chatting to regular people became a habit and I was fine, and then chatting up a woman that I found incredibly hot was extremely nerve racking.  Friends would notice this, and they even commented to how my body language changed and how I would begin to fidget uncontrollably.  It may be that I would be looking around her and finding it difficult to maintain eye contact, or it may be that I would automatically start tapping my foot without meaning it, or touching my clothes or playing with something I was holding.


Forcing yourself to chat to the hottest girls out there is simply the BEST way to begin to lose that feeling of nervousness.


You can read countless books, and I can chat to you for hours regarding to how you can fix yourself, but I would be lying if I said that was the alternative.


Guys can EASILY be fixated by that perfectly looking woman across the bar, or walking down that high street.


Just a second eye contact with that stunner, can make a 6’6” body builder’s legs turn to jelly.


Now imagine the power of value you will demonstrate when you approach this absolute stunner, and she’s going to automatically assume you are going to show signs of nervousness, and there you are standing with absolute confidence, maintaining that eye contract and your body language in TOTAL control, while those movements that you are NOT in control of show signs of instant confidence because you ARE naturally feeling confident inside and out!


That in itself is VALUE, and SOLID DHV.





This helps during day game and night! Obviously this will be a different scenario if the girl is dancing, or at a very high energy level, then the approach will be taken slightly differently, but for that girl standing at the bar or maintaining that normal energy level, then keeping a level head with posture helps considerably with gaming her.


If you feel the NEED to move around, you will fail.


Concentration and focusing ONLY on here and now while chatting up that stunner helps a lot with maintaining that calm posture.


The moment you start worrying what to say, or worrying of that awkward silence, then these things contribute to breaking that posture to pieces, and you will begin to fidget without even realising.


I also find that gazing into her eyes while concentrating on what she is saying helps a lot with maintaining that solid posture.  Not only that, but it also helps with communication in terms of listening to what she is saying.





Another great challenge would be to place yourself into social situations that would generally be a nerve breaker for many.  For example, keeping absolutely still while standing in a busy tube, maintaining eye contact with those who are around, especially the hot ones.  I’m not saying that you must stare at them until they get freaked out, but look at everyone, and if you were to make eye contact with another, to keep the gaze until they either look away, or if it suddenly turned into a staring contest, to either look to the side, or look up (NEVER looking down!), while keeping that posture solid.


Take a look at those confident guys out there and watch how they move, and how they interact with people.  You will notice the confidence from their body language and the way they interact even before you meet them.


It also helps to reduce the chances of a blowout as if a woman sees you with confidence; you will already have sort of a high value in her eyes before you even open her.


So, try these challenges and leave a comment on the right hand side letting me know how you get along!


And I promise you that you WILL see results once you demonstrate that confident posture when chatting up a hottie!


Jordan

Hey man,


Got a new video for you!


Nutrition is soooo important for a pua. I really go into detail in this video, check it out, tons of free value.


This knowledge on nutrition has come from years of being a raw foodist and doing many fruit only detox’s. On top of that teaching close to one thousand students pick up has meant I have constantly been tweaking and refining my habits. The preperation stuff that goes on behind the scenes 24/7, before you meet me on Friday of bootcamp.


Being a pick up teacher I need to be consistantly ON, it is not an option to have a bad night let alone month. Nutrition plays a MAJOR role in gaining consistancy at pick up both by helping the body and the mind.

Tip 1: Make sure you are eating enough carbs


Tip 2: Get regular early nights


Tip 3: Stay hydrated


Tip 4: Make sure you are getting daily exercise.


Tip 5: Meditate for 20 minutes everyday


Please leave a comment on the right hand side of the screen and request any topics you would be interested in other than pua nutrition.


Peace n Love,


Kingy

Hey man,


Happy New Year!


Theres a lot of talk on swirly twirly techniques and “What do I say?” but if your approaching fundamentals aren’t down then you aren’t getting laid.


This game like all games is played in the state of momentum. Meaning that your best approaches will usually come towards the end of the night, when you are completely indifferent to the girls reaction. The girls smell that coolness and “I’m the man” vibe off of you and respond to you.


To take it a level further is the wide range of momentum which comes from making approaching into a habit. You go out everyday and instead of just one nights worth of approaches you have a whole year of approaches behind you.


I go into detail in this video about how YOU can implement this winning habit immediately.





Peace n Love,


Kingy


p.s. If you haven’t already read The Sun Newspapers review of the PUA Method Bootcamp then check it out here!

Hey man,


Happy New Year and 2012! We have some exciting developments coming up that will really benefit YOU. People that know me will know how passionate I am about teaching pick up and getting you the best results possible. I like to keep things real and legit.


I practice everyday so when the weekend bootcamp comes along I’m ready to rock and perform at the highest level.


It would be a lot easier for me to just sit back and be a business owner and only delegate teaching to the very good PUA Method instructors. However where would the fun be in that? I want to join in with the fun too. I love pick up so much it is the most fun hobbie.





As it is the start of the year I thought that it would be a great time to address the most common limiting belief about pick up. The thing that might hold you back from going out there and approaching the women you desire which is the most important thing to do.


“Do my looks matter?”


The most popular guy in your school was he the best looking or the most confident? Usually the most popular guy in school is just more confident or funny.


Men and women are biologically wired to desire different things. Men look at a woman’s replication value, so her hips to breast ratio, facial symmetry, height, hair, lips, breast and bum size. Women look at the man’s survival value, confidence, humour and positivity being the top three.


A man who is good looking might get some freebies. For example some girls might approach him or give him signals that they are interested to be approached.


Social conditioning teaches women that they should go for a certain type of man but this type of man isn’t what they respond to. A very shallow, un-evolved, socially conditioned woman might be primarily focus on a man’s looks. Woman like this are rare though, especially attractive women. A more attractive woman will have gone on dates and generally have better self-esteem than a girl that is typically not as attractive. There are probably many counter examples but on average this is true.


Women will go on dates with good looking guys and be very disappointment. The guy is typically shy, acts strange, immature, unsure of himself. Some girls will understand that looks aren’t important for them while others take a bit of time to put the pieces of the puzzle together. “So I went on that date with that guy I should fancy but didn’t yet that normal man who made me laugh and made me feel all those emotions I slept with.”





Another factor with looks is that if your social skills, confidence or humour is just one percent better than your friend who is ultra good looking then you will get the girl. I have had many good looking students, a few male models come on bootcamp. I’m balding with a regular body and they could look like Brad Pitt out of Fight Club yet if I’m just one percent better I end up getting the girl.


What a woman is ultimately looking at is if you feel entitled to be with her. If you are good looking then getting lots of girls checking you out in the nightclub will increase your feeling of being entitled. This is a good thing but will lead to the good looking man fearing the approach and rejection. He has a lot to lose because the girl has put him up on the pedal stool and if he is not cool she will be disappointed. It is also completely unnecessary.


I have one friend called Chris who is very good looking with strong facial features. He studied Software Engineering with me and is a good friend to this day. Chris generally lacks confidence, a bit geeky and can be shy in social situations. He’s much better now, however I lost count on the number of times girls would come up to him in a club. They’d say hi or that they liked him at least once per night. Yet every time he would seem to be able to de-attract the woman. This is a guy who has looks that could grace the cover of a fashion magazine. Yet he only had sex three times over the course of his three years at University. He is not religious and he didn’t have a girlfriend.


Now my house mate Ash was and is a full on geek. He owns every games console ever created. Think Sega Saturn to Dreamcast, he owns them all. He has phrases like “It’s on like Donkey Kong” and “Locked and Loaded”. Above his bed he has a massive customized Ms Pac man poster and Nintendo Covers. If there was an island of geeks then he would be The Great Geeker. He isn’t great looking although he thinks that he is, in fact he is balding, skinny and pale looking.





Now Ash wasn’t perfect, he had ego and a strong need to feel loved. However this geeky guy would regularly go out and pick up girls. Ash was my main wing back at University and someone I learnt a lot from. He completely accepted his geekiness and just loves video games.


One of Ash’s favourite things to do was to bring a girl back to his room, have sex with her in the dark and then turn the lights on afterwards to reveal his games consoles and posters and proudly shout “You’ve just had sex with a nerd!”. I can imagine the poor girl thinking, “oh my god what have I done, I had sex with you? You suck!”


Ash didn’t have looks but he did have confidence, humour and was generally a positive guy. A man’s looks are such a passive thing for a woman that they are basically irrelevant. Make sure you are shaved, clean and wear decent clothes and that will be enough for you to date women with unlimited beauty.


When your out keep an eye out for guys who have hot girlfriends who aren’t “goodlooking”. Start to recognise that it is possible. Your brain doesn’t want information but instead it wants evidence. It wants to believe something is true and so you need to give yourself as many reference experiences as possible. Start approaching the girls that you want too. Think LONG-TERM. Not will this approach be successful but instead I’m going to be pro-active and take action.


Keep going out and keep approaching,


Peace n Love,


Kingy

The Power of the Maybe


Hey man,


Imagine yourself as a rabbit just living with your “rabbitness”. You are not good or bad, beautiful or ugly, shy or confident. You are simply a rabbit, running around on a green hill, freely, peacefully and without any judgements. When it is time to pass away you do so entering back into the mysterious space or “God” as many call it.


Masters don’t associate themselves as either or and instead just take action. David Beckham in an interview said “I believe I can change the game or score a goal at any point during a match. I don’t say that thinking I’m special but it is a belief that I have.” Bruce Lee once said “You can only truly believe that you can do something if you have done it many times before”.


There is difference between beliefs and having opinions about yourself. When you do something it will train your mind to believe that you can repeat that particular action without ego attachment. There is no attachment to action and so it is the same type of belief as if you are able to “fix your car” or “pick up a girl on the street”. A belief goes beyond personal identification and becomes part of your subconscious mind.





So understanding that your beliefs go beyond personal identification should help you to realise that there is no point to personal identification at all. Today after I had queued in the super market, I walked towards the cashier and a woman jumped in front of me and said, “I’m next!” to the cashier. I simply asked is that right? She smile, apologised and walked out. The cashier then told me she was just playing with me. My unconscious mind would love to try and interpret and solve what just happened. Why did she play with me? Do I look like an easy target? What other people have played with me?


Instead I simply replied with maybe to all of those questions in my mind. “Maybe I am an easy target, maybe I’m not, who knows”. With that acceptance of the moment the situation had no affect on me. I didn’t feel embarrassed or angry.


Palm trees are the most durable of trees found on the coast. When strong hurricane winds blow they can literally bend right over onto the ground and their trunk will not snap. They are completely flexible to stormy weathers and because of that they endure. A tree with less flexibility will simply snap or be up-routed. The power of the maybe enables you to be flexible like a palm tree when crazy things start to happen.





The power of Maybe is at the centre of ceasing personal identification with what is happening. You are not identifying with it and you are not un-identified with it. It is just some event that has happened which has no meaning on who you are.


The Surrender side of the Maybe will look something like this.


“Your ugly” – “Maybe I am Ugly”
“You look scared” – “Maybe I do look scared”
*she gives you a bad look – “Maybe I made her feel uncomfortable”


The Action side of the Maybe will look more like this.


“Maybe I am not Ugly”
“Maybe I don’t look scared”
“Maybe I didn’t make her feel uncomfortable”


My ego was large and ego loves to control so I found that my personal direction was more towards the surrender and letting go of control. From teaching I find this to be true for seventy percent of guys. For the other thirty percent who don’t have much ego or are too humble then you will want to maintain self love which is more balance towards the action side of the maybe.


You can say The Power of Maybe out loud. I do this all the time in relationships and also during pick up. The girl says something negative about me which can also be called a shit test and I simply reply with “Maybe that’s true”. I pass the test and remain completely unaffected by it. The thing that was deigned to hurt me has just flown right past me and I have decided not to identify with it.





Some girls like to be in control all of the time. It is similar reasons to why us men do this. We are all human! It is probably not a good idea to get into a relationship with a controlling girl and an easy way to find this out is by using the Power of the Maybe. “Maybe that is true” will result in a controlling girl saying something like “Yes it definitely is true”. She has strong opinions about something which is a demonstration of being controlling which comes from the ego. It can be fun to get controlling girls emotional with the maybe and also it is a very useful test to see if a girl is long-term material for you.


Master the maybe and you will develop more self confidence then you could ever imagine. Even when the waters get stormy.


Peace n Love,


Kingy

Hey man,


Living with Less is More


We live in society where it says “the more that you own the more important you are”. The guys who are best at the pick up artist arts are the ones who live humble and simple lives. Their attitude is always simple, I’m a guy and she is a girl, Hi!


Everything you add to your life brings with it an element of imprisonment. The more things you own the more you have to protect, clean and store those items. To become a true master of pick up you must remove attachment to all things and decrease what you already have.


We are taught from a young age that the pursuit of consumer goods is what is going to make us happy. Do they though? In my experience all of those things are short lived instant gratification. They are never enough. What makes me happy? Peace of mind, fresh food, a purpose, the sun, human connection, sarging, a skill which has taken me years to develop.


Try not to get into debt or purchase outside of your means. You don’t want to be approaching women as a slave, instead be a free man roaming the world. If you are thousands of pounds in debt your step will be a lot heavier and your shoulders a lot more tense than a free man.


I live a humble life in a small studio room but in a nice area of London. I don’t want to ever lose that connection to Earth and being real. Money is a tool which allows you to do some amazing things but purchasing things won’t make your happier.


The man who lives a simple life approaches the woman with nothing to lose and nothing to gain. He has nothing to gain because he is already happy in himself and simply choosing to have fun with a sexy woman. He has nothing to lose because he doesn’t have an ego or think himself important.


The man who lives a consumer life approaches the woman with everything to lose and nothing to gain. He feels a level of importance and her bad reaction would destroy his personal identity. He is approaching the woman needing a positive reaction to feel good about himself. He is yet to connect to the happiness within himself and is instead in the consumer trap which has taught him that he is never enough. His neediness is apparent and consistency with women and life will always elude him.


See the pointlessness of owning anything in a world that is constantly in the process of death and new life. At a point in the future everyone on this planet will die and everything you have ever owned will be destroyed. This could be an asteroid or some planetary event but it will happen. We don’t actually ever own anything. Money is a currency that we currently use but even that is becoming less physical and more computer based. Maybe one day our financial transactions will be made by a card only. How much power will we be giving to those private institutions when they can quite easily just close our account and stop our card from working? They would have control over us and we would be completely reliant on them. Keep this state of mind and choose to remain as free as possible, just how you came into this world.


Choose three things of importance you own and give them away. The more important they are the better you will feel when you give them away and severe the attachment to them.


Peace n Love,


Kingy

Hey man,


Hope you are still going out gaming!


Checkout this new video from Jordan here on Direct Street Game and the advanced techniques he uses. Enjoy!





Remember this time of year the girl is looking for a boyfriend or someone to share Christmas and then Valentines with. This might not be concious and the girl would probably deny it. “No, I don’t need a boyfriend, I have my family”.


However what a girl says and what she actually responds to are two completely different things Girls realise that this is a romantic time of the year coming up and it’s nice to snuggle and cuddle so she is on the lookout!


It is the easiest time of year for makeouts, getting dates and instant dates on the street.


Leave a comment on the right side of the page letting us know your opinion and any questions.


Peace n Love,


Kingy