I’ve just got back from the New Forest and I wanted to share this video. I find myself constantly looking for ways to keep myself in state and to feel awesome most of the time. Don’t get me wrong bad stuff happens and it is definitly possible to have a sad day. However I’ve grown to believe that our default state when we are living in the correct way is Happiness….. awww happiness, thats like unicorns and disney land right? Exactly, imagine walking through the night club or running some tight ass street game when you are feeling like a green juice warrior of sunshine. Yeah thats right, it’s putting random words together to form a joke time! Booo ya. Anyhow…..

Taking care of your personal fundamentals first will definitly help your pick up. Girls are very aware of how you are feeling on the inside. It is possible to fake it to an extent but usually they will know. Getting great reactions from girls usually comes down to the energy being put out there by the man, this then gets mirrored back to him from the girls.

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Hey Man,

I’ve just got back from the New Forest and I wanted to share this video.





I find myself constantly looking for ways to keep myself in state and to feel awesome most of the time. Don’t get me wrong bad stuff happens and it is definitly possible to have a sad day. However I’ve grown to believe that our default state when we are living in the correct way is Happiness….. awww happiness, thats like unicorns and disney land right? Exactly, imagine walking through the night club or running some tight ass street game when you are feeling like a green juice warrior of sunshine. Yeah thats right, it’s putting random words together to form a joke time! Booo ya. Anyhow…..

Taking care of your personal fundamentals first will definitly help your pick up. Girls are very aware of how you are feeling on the inside. It is possible to fake it to an extent but usually they will know. Getting great reactions from girls usually comes down to the energy being put out there by the man, this then gets mirrored back to him from the girls.

I like to use real examples so on last bootcamp I opened and ran a Mother Daughter set in the bar. I was doing very little attraction based stuff because it was early on in the night and the energy of the bar was low. It didn’t matter though and with just a little teasing “oh I thought you were sisters ” I was able to get exactly the same result. The mother wanted me to take the daughters number and the daughter started asking where I lived e.t.c. I pulled a student into the set half way through and he tried to contribute but it was already hooked into me. Physically I wasn’t locked in at all, they were seated and I was running my game in front of them with my back to the room. AFC stuff, but it didn’t matter, this was literally all down to the energy I was giving off, unicorns in disney land

To get great energy you have to find out what works for you. It actually took a while for me to be able to start listening and understanding to what my body wants. For instance a badger isn’t asking other badgers how much protein he should be getting or whether his zinc levels are too high! Naahh man he’s just listening to his own body, I need to eat green, I need to drink, I need to find a lady badger for a bit of a cuddle Dirty Badger!

Try 100% raw food diet for a day to see how you get on, throw those gingsters pies in the bin (other brands of pies are available). I 100% recommend getting out into nature, fresh oxygen and exercise is amazing. You still need to know tight outer-game to be able to pick up consistantly plus have your inner thoughts and beliefs fixed and pegg’d down but get your foundations solid. The vast majority of inner game doesn’t come down to how many strippers you have picked up this year but instead (raw food, drink, oxygen, exercise, meditation, socialising) play a much larger part.

Peace n Love,


Kingy

Let me introduce you to our new girl Maria Eriksson. She is a Playboy Cover Girl and was voted this year in the top 100 hottest girls in the World by Playboy.

I dont like to vote girls on a scale of 1 – 10 but

Travelling the world and getting bombarded with approaches everytime she leaves the house, Maria is very socialised. She gets it!

When Maria and I took some time out to record this video she was getting insane levels of attention. Men checking her out, whistling, even stopping in front to take pictures. Plus me with my neck tatoo and peacocked out clothes….. The Circus was in town

Imagine how much your game today could benefit from being able to practice chatting up a girl like Maria. No beating around the bush is she a 10 is she a 9? It really doesn’t matter, she is a Playboy girl. Practice your approaches, find out what you can improve, what type of men does Maria usually date?

Maria and Chloe teach on Full Bootcamps and can also be arranged for 1-1 sessions (£70 per hour plus an Instructor [...]]]>

Hey Guys,

Let me introduce you to our new girl Maria Eriksson. She is a Playboy Cover Girl and was voted this year in the top 100 hottest girls in the World by Playboy.

I dont like to vote girls on a scale of 1 – 10 but

Travelling the world and getting bombarded with approaches everytime she leaves the house, Maria is very socialised. She gets it!

When Maria and I took some time out to record this video she was getting insane levels of attention. Men checking her out, whistling, even stopping in front to take pictures. Plus me with my neck tatoo and peacocked out clothes….. The Circus was in town

Imagine how much your game today could benefit from being able to practice chatting up a girl like Maria. No beating around the bush is she a 10 is she a 9? It really doesn’t matter, she is a Playboy girl. Practice your approaches, find out what you can improve, what type of men does Maria usually date?

Maria and Chloe teach on Full Bootcamps and can also be arranged for 1-1 sessions (£70 per hour plus an Instructor will be there too. email: info (at) puamethod.com ) Getting used to talking to the hottest of girls plus getting their feedback on your current approach is an invaluable experience.

Enjoy the video,


Bringing you the hottest girls,


Kingy

Peace n Love, Kingy

Checkout this video I did with Cieran. He has also provided his own personal BIO below, an interesting read for sure. I would also like to point out that the blow out in the middle of the video was done on purpose. We wanted to illustrate the crucial point that it doesn’t matter if you approach and get rejected. As long as you’ve approached then be happy, that is all that matters! Anyway enjoy the vid and the text below. Peace n Love, Kingy

—————————————————— From Cieran (Instructor exclusively for PUA Method Bootcamps & 1-1s)

People often ask me how was I able to go out on my own approaching women & how come I didn’t give up sooner? It’s simple really…. I felt like I had NO choice!!! Failure was never an option for me, I could either (a) talk to girls with the chance of getting laid, or (b) go back to staying indoors feeling depressed and girl-less. What’s the better option here? It’s clearly (a) The one thing that allowed me to build momentum was the small successes. I focused on the positives, whether that was a girl smiling, talking and getting a number, to a kiss, or a [...]]]>

Word up Yo!

Checkout this video I did with Cieran. He has also provided his own personal BIO below, an interesting read for sure. I would also like to point out that the blow out in the middle of the video was done on purpose. We wanted to illustrate the crucial point that it doesn’t matter if you approach and get rejected. As long as you’ve approached then be happy, that is all that matters!



Anyway enjoy the vid and the text below.


Peace n Love,


Kingy

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From Cieran (Instructor exclusively for PUA Method Bootcamps & 1-1s)

People often ask me how was I able to go out on my own approaching women & how come I didn’t give up sooner? It’s simple really…. I felt like I had NO choice!!! Failure was never an option for me, I could either (a) talk to girls with the chance of getting laid, or (b) go back to staying indoors feeling depressed and girl-less.


What’s the better option here? It’s clearly (a)


The one thing that allowed me to build momentum was the small successes. I focused on the positives, whether that was a girl smiling, talking and getting a number, to a kiss, or a lay or whatever. This was sometimes incredibly hard to do, as some nights I would get blown out constantly leaving me feeling like crap. Sometimes the pain was so bad that I would sit down on the side of the street and breakdown crying. But I just knew I had to keep on going, I just knew if I kept persisting I would get results.


You could call this blind faith.
Instead of letting the pain steer me away from improving this area of my life, I used it to give me drive. Every rejection just made me want it even more!


What’s my criteria for success? That I approached. That’s it!
That way I always succeed. It’s in my control, not anyone else’s. By walking up to a girl and saying “I want to tell her she is cute, then take her out for a drink and make her my girlfriend” you will feel more anxiety as you have set your criteria for success much higher and in someone else’s control.


When I approach a girl there is nothing going on in my mind I feel the vibe and go with the flow. I bounce off the girls energy with my masculine energy. The only time I go inside my head to be logical is when I want to bounce her to another venue or get her number or to arrange logistics e.t.c. The rest is all on autopilot. I just ask myself “Does she feel comfortable?” and then I make my next move.
And if I don’t know what to do I just act! It’s best to do something than nothing!!!



Don’t be afraid to “mess it up”. What’s funny is that when you talk to so many women you become less outcome dependent. The reason is because you know you have the ability to approach women so it won’t be long until you find yourself in the same situation again. The next time you can try something different and it’s likely to work this time, as you now have past experience.


What’s my style of pickup?

I prefer to be direct and playful. I like day game as you can create great connections with women, it seems easier to get to know the real them. Night game is also fun as you can end up having crazy experiences with girls that you never thought was even possible!
One thing that I have always done is I experimented and found what works for me. When someone had an idea I would go out and test it to see what happens, rather than mentally masturbating about it on an online forum all day.



So what led me to finding the community?


I was like a lot of guys, I felt lost. I didn’t have the skills to attract women. Apart of me wanted to get laid and just “bang a load of girls” and another part wanted a girlfriend, someone to care for me. I wanted confidence, I wanted to be happier, I wanted to be a cool guy.
I had a vision of myself of how I wanted to be and went for it. I had to ditch my old identity in order to develop a new one, that of an attractive guy. This was extremely hard to do as you have to ditch your old beliefs and everything you thought you knew and start off fresh. Getting first hand experience and going for what you want is crucial to finding out who you truly are. It’s painful and feels almost like an identity crisis as you are looking both externally and internally for the answers. It can be really confusing and frustrating.



Where did I come from?


I came from a place of literally NO social skills. I was so shy and awkward that I would go bright red in the face and start shaking if a hot girl sat next to me on public transport. It was terrible. I had cystic acne, was bullied at school, used to have a speech problem and had a difficult upbringing living with a schizophrenic mother. I still remember my first approach. It was awful. I just stood there shaking and scared the girl away.


How did I get good?


I went out and approached. Simple.
It can be helpful to dedicate a lot of time to it as you will gain social experience very quickly. It’s not something you want to get lost in. It’s important to bring your life back into balance at some point.


And one last thing, as long as you go out and talk to women, then a lot of your problems will correct themselves. Your unconscious mind is processing all your interactions for you, and links up all your past experiences allowing you to know how to act and what to do in the moment.


Follow your gut feeling, push through the pain and reach for the stars.


Peace and love,


Cieran

I recorded this video with Cupid over the weekend and I really wanted to share it with you. We both have very similar feelings in regards to self acceptance and how to achieve it.

Self acceptance is vital , VITAL when becoming an attractive man. Getting stuck thinking that you always aren’t enough is a nasty place to be. Be open-minded and learn new things but also accept who you currently are. Never be critical on yourself as long as you are moving forward. So if you are approaching then be happy, if you aren’t approaching then its okay to be a little angry to self motivate Hope you all enjoy the video and I’ll speak to you soon,

peace n love, kingy

During the Sunday I took Chloe aside after she had finished giving feedback to the guys to ask her a few questions. Sorry for the audio the World Cup Final was on in the background and those vuvu watzits are LOUD! I literally had my right ear destroyed by one of those trumpets of death as we hit up the West-End after the match. Fantastic fun regardless and one of those cool once in a life-time moments we got to share with the students. The spanish love a party. Chloe teaches on all our Bootcamps at the moment and also does 2-1 training with me. You get to practice talking to her, approaching her and she gives spot on feedback plus fashion advice and all that good stuff.

Anyway hope you enjoyed your party last night where ever you got to and the video. See you soon, Peace n Love, Kingy

Low self-esteem is often caused by people being overly harsh on themselves. We all have rules for ourselves about what standards we should reach to be happy. A lot of these rules are excessively high especially with people studying self help material. Most of the time people don’t even know what “good” means when talking about picking up women. Some men think that getting every girl is the only successful outcome. Do you think that needing to pick up every girl in order to feel happy is a great way to base your self-esteem. The reason that this community has a lot of perfectionists in it, is that, in order to improve yourself, you have to have goals and dream big. This will then make you feel bad for not having those things and push you across, as Tony Robbins likes to call it, “The indifference threshold”. This pain causes you to take action and set you on your path to making your dreams a reality. The bad side to this is that if the interaction isn’t perfect or you don’t get the best response you beat yourself up about it. This [...]]]>

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Low self-esteem is often caused by people being overly harsh on themselves. We all have rules for ourselves about what standards we should reach to be happy. A lot of these rules are excessively high especially with people studying self help material. Most of the time people don’t even know what “good” means when talking about picking up women. Some men think that getting every girl is the only successful outcome. Do you think that needing to pick up every girl in order to feel happy is a great way to base your self-esteem.


The reason that this community has a lot of perfectionists in it, is that, in order to improve yourself, you have to have goals and dream big. This will then make you feel bad for not having those things and push you across, as Tony Robbins likes to call it, “The indifference threshold”. This pain causes you to take action and set you on your path to making your dreams a reality.





The bad side to this is that if the interaction isn’t perfect or you don’t get the best response you beat yourself up about it. This definitely isn’t healthy thinking and is one of the quickest ways to destroy a persons self-esteem. Having negative thoughts and blaming yourself after you get blown out by a girl will only lessen your chances of improving in this area of your life. Instead you want to lower your standards for success to just opening and trying out a new technique. Anything else that happens doesn’t matter, you just want to open and then give yourself a massive pat on the back afterwards. This can be easier said than done and if you are struggling to make this transition then a bootcamp will fix this.


When I used to live in Kingston I noticed a really happy man that worked everyday in a corner shop on my road. He always had a massive smile on his face and said a warm hello to everyone. A lot of the, we’ll call them council estate people used to give him a hard time. They’d come into the shop and take the micky out of him and tease him. I always felt sorry for him but he never seemed to share my feelings. In fact he didn’t seem to mind at all. This drove me crazy because I couldn’t understand how someone so much worse off than me could be so much happier than I was. So one day I decided to ask him why he was always so happy. He replied, “I’m alive”. His rule for feeling happy was simple, if I’m alive, then that’s fantastic!





Now you don’t want to have people walk all over you and not achieve anything in your life. At the same time, you want to maintain your confidence and self-esteem. The best way to do this is by setting yourself small achievable missions each night that you go out. For example, talk to three new women. If you do this then that’s brilliant and anything on top of this is an excellent bonus. If you are new or even intermediate to this then threesomes, strippers and hot girls shouldn’t be your criteria to feeling happy. If these are your rules then you will never feel happy and these kind of women easily pick up on this stuff and are repelled by it. A never ending, self defeating loop of doom, its okay to fail or do something wrong.


Exercise:


Part One


Make a list of all the areas that you feel that you need to be perfect in.


“Other people will think less of me if I make a mistake”
“If a woman rejects me then that is a failure”
“I must be able to pick up every night”


Part Two


Now write down where you think these perfectionist views have come from. What parts of your past has shaped you to take on these core beliefs? Then below each one, list all the reasons why keeping these beliefs is beneficial to you, if it actually is….


Peace and Love,


Kingy