Peace n Love, Kingy

A Quick Video from Beckster teaching at last weekend’s Bootcamp. Teaching last weekend was Myself, Beckster, Cupid, Cieran, Majik and Layla. Checkout feedback from last weekends bootcamp and all our other reviews.

Enjoy theres lots of good tips in there,

Peace and Love,

Kingy

So onto the main topic of the day Russell Brand. I find myself constantly looking for role models to evolve myself further.  The people I choose aren’t necessarily big pimps but instead have characteristics that I’d like for myself.  Russell Brand (before Katy Perry) had been giving his love to an un-imaginable amount of women.  In this article I shall analyse and reveal the secrets to how he has been so successful with women.

At first glance Russell Brand doesn’t appear to adhere to the typical Alpha Male stereotype.  Skinny, long hair, feminine body language and an obvious vulnerability don’t usually go hand in hand with a Don Juan.  Before we take a closer look though, lets remove his fame.  He has been quoted saying that when girls don’t know he’s famous it usually takes a lot longer to get them to come to his house, bed or a public toilet.  This [...]]]>

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So onto the main topic of the day Russell Brand. I find myself constantly looking for role models to evolve myself further.  The people I choose aren’t necessarily big pimps but instead have characteristics that I’d like for myself.  Russell Brand (before Katy Perry) had been giving his love to an un-imaginable amount of women.  In this article I shall analyse and reveal the secrets to how he has been so successful with women.

At first glance Russell Brand doesn’t appear to adhere to the typical Alpha Male stereotype.  Skinny, long hair, feminine body language and an obvious vulnerability don’t usually go hand in hand with a Don Juan.  Before we take a closer look though, lets remove his fame.  He has been quoted saying that when girls don’t know he’s famous it usually takes a lot longer to get them to come to his house, bed or a public toilet.  This is definitely true as women need time to asses a mans behaviour.  Where mens’ attraction to women is based primarily on her replication value.  Many single men would have no problem having sex with a woman that they just met in a park.

So lets remove his fame (sorry Russell, you can have it back shortly )  Imagine this scenario, he enters a nightclub and no one has ever met or seen him before.

First off his style, unique, eye catching and sexual.  This makes him standout out in a cool way and can help a lot.  By creating interest and attention from women, other women will then presume you are an attractive male.  I do this sometimes in the form of fake tattoos, my ear piercings and dressing in extravagant clothes.  Max has tested this too by spiking his hair up, (which is huge) wearing funky clothes and standing in a bar by himself.  Obviously he is having fun and looking confident rather than nervous or like a social reject.  Just by standing out and going to a bar he will get approached by a few women in the evening and can choose one to take home.  This is nothing to do with his looks, just the fact he’s congruent in standingout.

Sexual Humour plays a big part in Russell Brands interactions with women.  This is both because it amuses him and he has learnt over time that it gets girls excited too.  Saying shocking things or sexual topics will create emotions in girls.  Girls respond to emotions and not logic.  This is done with natural calibration and gradual escalation.  Not immediately will Russell Brand launch into strong sexual topics, instead, over a period of time.

Russell Brand has great confidence and is very un-reactive.  From reading his auto-biography it seems that this wasn’t always the case though.  In fact from his own admission, he used to be shy and would rather spend time away from people.  Gradually since college he exposed himself to new situations and social interactions outside of his comfort zone.  In the beginning this involved a lot of talking to people on the street.  Sound familiar?  Then it progressed to MTV work, presenting to larger groups of people and crazy stunts on his show like peeing his pants in public.  If you stay outside of your comfort zone enough you will grow and those old challenges will become easy.

A thing that we share in common is that Russell meditates regularly.  I’ve meditated for about ten minutes every day for six months.  Not a massive investment of time but because it has been regular I have seen positive shifts in my inner game. My ego is less so I rarely need any form of positive feedback from other people when talking to them.  For instance I remember one time when I was chatting with a group of four girls and two guys.  I ended up not dominating the interaction because I was an outsider of the social group and they were talking about a lot of insider topics.  This caused a level of stress, I went into my head and then I became stifled and up tight.  With meditation, I’m now able to stay in the moment, watch my breathing and stay present.  I don’t mind what is happening, I stay happy and outside of my head.  Then I can either pursue a new topic of conversation or wait for the conversation to natural come back to me and because I’m in a good mood I usually respond well.

Can you see the difference when he’s not completely comfortable?  Below are two clips, one from his first Jonathon Ross performance and the other from a later one.  In the first clip he is a lot less comfortable and ends up micromanaging most of the interview.  This leads to less humour and if I’m super analytical a passive aggressive vibe.  In the second clip he is a lot more relaxed and able to vibe as his best self.  I don’t show this to mock but instead to encourage others.  People aren’t perfect or born great.  It takes time and practice to become great and if someone is better than you then they have just practiced more.  It is completely natural to be nervous about going into an unknown situation.  The way to have complete confidence in something is to do it over and over again.

I showed this to my friend and she struggled to see the difference (other than he seemed happier and funnier in the second clip). Girls aren’t thinking “he’s not feeling entitled” they usually are just responding to the vibe that you put out. Look at his eyes, facial expressions and how relaxed he looks in the two clips. From teaching pickup for years I’m able to notice social ques I’d say as good if not better than women can. It has taken me years of experiencing difficult social situations to get this, definitly not something that I was born with.

Those, my insights on the English gent and legend that is Russell Brand.  Definitely a recommended role model for learning how to get better with women and social interactions in general.  It is an un-natural thing to break down someone’s behaviour but the quickest way to get good at something is to model yourself on someone who is good.  That is why I make sure that all our instructors including myself demo on Bootcamps.  Next time I think I’ll be focusing on the pimping power of 50 cent.

Peace and Love,

Kingy

p.s. I’ve been getting a lot of emails asking when the Zen of Dating book is going to be released. It’s finished, just needs editing, I predict another couple weeks at the desk. Remember you will get a free copy plus the Text Game E-Book when you sign up for a Full Bootcamp. Set your goals for the new year and go for it!

I would like to take the time to introduce you to one of our pua instructors Cosmic, below you can find out how he has cultivated his awesome level of confidence and in one approach he gets a kiss close on the street in possibly the hardest location in UK for meeting women (because of the naturals, club promoters, and other pua’s e.t.c.) all recorded on video :-

Meditation: Twice a day, once in the morning, once in the evening for 5 minutes or more, be regular about meditation.  Its better to meditate five minutes a day every day, than to meditate for 40 minutes one day and then nothing the next. 

Meditation gets you in touch with yourself and centers you, so when all the stress and hulla ballo of everyday life is swirling around you, it doesn’t affect you and you stay confident and centered.  Implement this habit today, get a meditation book from the library, you will see results immediately.  I shall put up a long post on how to meditate properly and mind body benefits shortly.

Creating Energy: Wake up early every day (before 6am), input less toxins into the body e.g. alcohol, meat, smoking, work out – keep active, get outside of [...]]]>

Hey Guys Kingy here,

I would like to take the time to introduce you to one of our pua instructors Cosmic, below you can find out how he has cultivated his awesome level of confidence and in one approach he gets a kiss close on the street in possibly the hardest location in UK for meeting women (because of the naturals, club promoters, and other pua’s e.t.c.) all recorded on video :-

Meditation: Twice a day, once in the morning, once in the evening for 5 minutes or more, be regular about meditation.  Its better to meditate five minutes a day every day, than to meditate for 40 minutes one day and then nothing the next. 

Meditation gets you in touch with yourself and centers you, so when all the stress and hulla ballo of everyday life is swirling around you, it doesn’t affect you and you stay confident and centered.  Implement this habit today, get a meditation book from the library, you will see results immediately.  I shall put up a long post on how to meditate properly and mind body benefits shortly.

Creating Energy: Wake up early every day (before 6am), input less toxins into the body e.g. alcohol, meat, smoking, work out – keep active, get outside of your comfort zone as much as possible and then return to centre.

Cosmic teaches on all Full Bootcamps where he gives theory, demos, wings and is with you during the whole weekend to help you become your best self.  You can also book 1-1’s with cosmic by sending an email to info(at)puamethod.com , requesting a date with the number of hours.

Peace and Love,

Kingy

What are we talking about today? Probably one of the most fundamental parts of game to date, Core Purpose.

Before you approach a girl ask yourself why? Sounds silly right, but you will be surprised. There are too many wishy washy reasons as to why you think you should be approaching this girl:-

I need to improve my PUA Skill Set

To impress my friends

I think I’m meant to

No dude the whole purpose of approaching the girl in the first place is because of something, a reason, not what your friends tell you, not what some Guru tells you but actually deep down inside of you there are desires as a man. Society will try and suppress these desires by telling you to

Pay for dinner when taking a girl on a date

Don’t be too forward

Don’t speak when not being spoken too

To be quiet

Girls don’t enjoy sex

Don’t look at girls in public

Look at the Popular Magazines that people buy these days with the dating advice, the fashion advice, the lifestyle advice, the celebrity gossip. These articles are just written by people, often times by people who have very little in-field experience on the subject that they are actually talking about. Television is mostly [...]]]>

Hey Hey,

What are we talking about today? Probably one of the most fundamental parts of game to date, Core Purpose.

Before you approach a girl ask yourself why? Sounds silly right, but you will be surprised. There are too many wishy washy reasons as to why you think you should be approaching this girl:-

I need to improve my PUA Skill Set

To impress my friends

I think I’m meant to

No dude the whole purpose of approaching the girl in the first place is because of something, a reason, not what your friends tell you, not what some Guru tells you but actually deep down inside of you there are desires as a man. Society will try and suppress these desires by telling you to

Pay for dinner when taking a girl on a date

Don’t be too forward

Don’t speak when not being spoken too

To be quiet

Girls don’t enjoy sex

Don’t look at girls in public

Look at the Popular Magazines that people buy these days with the dating advice, the fashion advice, the lifestyle advice, the celebrity gossip. These articles are just written by people, often times by people who have very little in-field experience on the subject that they are actually talking about. Television is mostly apart from the occasional show just mind numbing entertainment that re-enforces societies views which are, to get girls you need to be rich, good looking, famous, money will make you happy, don’t think for yourself. etc

This is taking you away from being able to get in touch with your core as a man, and of course without actually being taught about this stuff then how would you ever know? It would take a lot of years of trial and error.

The point of knowing why you are approaching a girl can’t be emphasized enough though, why are you approaching this girl?

Is it just that she is physically hot?

Are you just horny for any girl right now?

Is she dressed in an interesting way and you are just curious

Does she have a really good style?

Is it that she has a perfect ass that you want to take home?

Does she have good energy and you what to find out more?

Have a think about it and actually act on your core purpose, you have a reason to go up to her. Some of the reasons above might be a little crude or not what the girl wants to think in a particular state, but guess what women have those feelings too. Sometimes a girl will just want to be taken and that is perfectly okay, no judgments because it’s called being human.

A good way to tap into your core is to take a second and think about what girls you like? what porn do you like? what type of personalities or styles do you like? Trust your judgment here and roll with it, and when you are out do this too. This 3 set in the corner of the room do I like any of these girls? I wonder what they would be like to hangout with….

The pictures I post in my blog aren’t random photos, they are pictures that I find to my core attractive. That’s not to say that I will always find that type of girl attractive because I’m evolving and dynamic and the more life experience I get the more I will change, and that’s fine too. Maybe some of the photo’s wouldnt be the HB9 or 10’s that the seduction community would look up to, but I really dont care, because if I ever did I wouldn’t be being true to myself.

When you are approaching with a core purpose you will come off confident, dominant, knowing what you want, congruent, real. These are all very attractive qualities, you will then need to say something……

And this is how to construct your opener on the fly:-

“Hey I love your style and had to come over and introduce myself, Hi my name is [your name]“

“Hey you are so sexy, I had to come over and introduce myself, Hi my name is [your name]“

“Hey I love your legs I had to come over and introduce myself, Hi my name is [your name]“

Then you can proceed to talking and escalating how you want, if you are even thinking in set “what should I say next” then you are in the wrong frame of mind. You should be thinking what do I want next.

So if you want to kiss her then try to kiss her, if she says No then cool no problem, chill for a bit continue talking and try again later. Its cool because she is just playing hard to get or she isn’t there yet, no worries I’ll get her later. If you want to dance then pick her up and take her to dance “come on lets dance, its time to dance!”

Manipulation and lines are not cool, use them to help get yourself a little experience sure but very quickly they should be dropped. Tapping into your core is sustainable and very very attractive it’s when you are “gaming” without actually having to do anything. You are just being YOU.

p.s. If the girl is not into you for real and she tells you to leave her alone then that’s cool go talk to someone else. Just most of the time this is not the case and the guy will be sitting there thinking of the next thing to say and the girl just wants him to kiss her.