This week the team and I recorded this video on approach anxiety which a pua will usually experience at some level during his development. Being born in Surrey where its all ya ya ya you are quickly led to believe that talking to strangers is wrong and you should act in a polite and demure way.
Limiting beliefs like this hold you back from being socially free and able to talk to anyone at anytime. It takes time to remove limiting beliefs but I assure it is possible and AA can be easily controlled to a level where it doesn’t affect you anymore.
Recap:-
Step One: Start basic and just ask a few directions, this will get you more social
Step Two: After a few directions continue the conversation on a bit by either stacking another opinion opener or a general cold read like “you look like you’ve had a crazy day”.
Step Three: If you are still feeling anxious then do something crazy, say something or do something that is not socially acceptable. This will allow you brain to accept that it doesn’t matter and no one really cares what you do.
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Peace and Love,
Kingy
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hey kingy, great video they quality of them are improving better, guess you’ve been practicing on your pc a bit. i sometimes cant even do directions when going out solo what would you advise then?
love the video, thanks kingy, i check here reguarly now
great stuff dude, keep it up
Great vid Kingy. This is true it IS like a game, and warming up your tongue for interaction is just as essential as stretching before playing any sport.
Also, I’ll listen to Anthony Robbins audios before going out or going anywhere.
thanks guys, not my editing btw
if you cant do directions then i recommened just holding eye contact with girls in the street. the important thing is you are pro-active and not reactive. so its okay to set a really easy mission for the day like hold eye contact with 3 girls because it will build self-esteem when u say u will do something and then you do it. this will also increase your confidence to go for it the next time as well. p.s. i love all tony robbins stuff too, very positive
Hey kingy, I agree with all of this, great ways to start conversations.
Love the new video, i like the way you actually approach in all your vids.
really like what your doing, an inspiration to all of us.
Hey kingy, is that West London? I noticed it straight away when I watched the vid.
Hey megaman,
correct wellspotted! I live close so went out with the guys during lunch break.
Kingy
Hey these videos are great quality for pu! I agree with what you say, i like to liseten to music before i leave the house as well init!
also i find wearing nice clothes helps
p.s. lol also being sociable during the day has helped me too, after leaving work
Great post this will really help me.
thanks man, gonna get out there myself this new year!