6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Jordan, Beckster and Chloe
« on: August 20th, 2010»
Hey Kingy,
I just wanted to say thanks for the great bootcamp. I learnt
loads and was put well out of my comfort zone. The trainers were an
inspiration and watching them at work and hearing about their
different journeys was awesome.
I was especially interested in the inner game work as I feel this is
where I need to focus my energies. I picked up the book you
recommended and have started to work through the excercises. Bringing
the methods you taught into my everyday life is helping me be more
social and happy. The other night I was out and just asked for
directions then high fived everyone I saw it was a lot of fun!
Some of the guys from the course are planning to meet up regularly to
practice and trade stories. This will help us stick with it and keep
practicing.
Thanks again will probably contact you later on in the year about some
one on ones after I have worked on using cbt to work on my beliefs.
Take care
Deepraj
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Jordan, Beckster and Chloe
« on: August 20th, 2010»
Let me start with a brief paragraph about me, before I did this, so you know where I'm coming from.
I'm 22 years old, new to the game. I've come from quite a fxcked background. Not long ago, I was a wreck, I had managed to almost completely obliterate my social circle. I was drinking every day, smoking, self harming with the occasional suicide attempt. I was always very socially awkward, a hermit with no conversation skills. Since school up until working my last job, numerous hours were spent during break times in the toilet cubicle with an ipod to avoid other people. To cut a long story short, I decided I wanted to do something about my life, I wanted to get outside of myself. I started doing various things to develop myself, I found out about this boot camp, I hardly had enough money to take it, but decided to bite the bullet. I knew I wanted to improve myself and overall confidence as soon as possible.I chose Puamethod, because of a friend recommendation and the vibe of the website, advertising not only to improve your skills with women, but in life.
DAY 1)
-We started the boot camp with theory at The Casino at The Empire with Cieran, and two other PUA's, Tyrone and Jordan,(I'm not too sure their PUA names)
All of the people in the group were new to this, they gave us an introduction, were happy to answer any questions we had, gave us some routines and advice. They shared their background with us, explaining how similar most of them were to us a few years ago.
-We then went on to O'Neill's. As we were all beginners, the only thing we were instructed to do was to open and get comfortable doing that. The instructors showed us how its done. They opened and stayed in sets for ages, played around, teased, got a few number closes and a k-closed within minutes. We all opened a few, and I definitely went outside my comfort zone. We then took to the streets to see some street game. That was enough for one night
DAY 2)
-On Saturday we started with more theory with Kingy, Cupid, and Cieran at On Anon, they explained things in detail, then as the night started we stayed, and put the theory into practice. Kingy and Cupid really pushed me into opening sets. For a small time, the playful side of me came out, I was talking to everyone and just getting comfortable opening and going further outside my comfort zone.
-It seemed to be Hen Party night that night, which changed the atmosphere, quite few of them were very hard to open but the instructors showed us how to have fun and made us approach as many as possible. I made two approaches on the way home that night. No closes, but as my eyes were opening I could start seeing the matrix so to speak, the possibilities that I could with some pratice.
DAY 3)
-On Sunday we did day game work with Cupid, Jordan and Tyrone. I found this more difficult, than the others, and only really opened one girl.
-We were introduced to pea cocking, I already knew about this, but didn't know the good places to shop. They took us round shops in Leicester square and Trocadero. Later Kingy went through some more theory, inner game and we put things into practice on one of the instructors, Chloe. Its obviously different to real life as you don't get second chances, and you know she's an instructor. But still, to my surprise, I learnt quite a lot.
-My personal highlight of the boot camp was when we met Beckster. This guy was an inspiration, not just as a PUA, but as a person. Putting it simply, He's happy. He's charming, has a great sense of humor, and has incredibly contagious charisma and energy. He loves the craft and teaches with great passion and enthusiasm. Most importantly I learnt loads from him. He knows his craft inside out and had a solution for the problems we went through.
He laid his methods out simply and in detail until we would be able to use it in field. He shared some tips, tricks and routines. Then we went in field. Opened sets, some of us closed, including me with an email close and most importantly had fun. It was when we were having fun, and I felt good, i started noticing IOI's all over the place, even from a woman who was on a date.
-We then went to debrief with Kingy and Beckster. Kingy took us aside one by one to help us tackle personal issues and sticking points to help our inner game. He spent a lot of time with us and was very patient. As soon as i get some more cash together I'll be doing some more 1-1's with Kingy and Beckster. I've made more progress with these guys in 3 days, than I have a month in CB therapy costing a lot more!!
-I already knew intellectually, that the art of seduction was a learnable craft, but Beckster and Kingy that night really made me know on a gut level that its really learnable for me too. And I intend to learn it and practice it full on now. I guess if a course can make you more excited to get out there and learn and practice, then its done its job.
-The other instructors were great too, Cupid, a half asian brother, Jordan and Tyrone. I hope to see them all soon.
- So even in a small group, the instructors still see your sticking points and give personal direction and tips. They care and invest in you, so I ended up wanting to do well not just for myself but out of respect for them.
-The only things I'd say was it didn't seem to last long enough, we ran out of time for meditation, and the teaching took place inside busy venues so there were some distractions, but I managed to cope fine with that. I'm sure if I repeated the boot camp again, I'd learn more be able to push myself even further.
-I didn't expect any major closes after a weekend. For now I know I can open and approach, something I've done maybe three times in my whole life, and especially not in england. My inner confidence has drastically improved and I feel, not completely changed, but that I am in a process of changing and getting stronger.
So seeing as all of the students were beginners, I can only recommend this course for beginners, but I can confirm these guys really know their stuff and I'm sure can adapt to guys at all levels. For me it was life changing, and I intend to master this craft.
andy
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Jordan, Beckster and Chloe
« on: August 20th, 2010»
Hey Kingy,
Overall I thought the bootcamp was really good - I learnt a lot and came a long way in a very short period of time. Most importantly, my confidence with it is much greater and I know I can be good at it.
-P-
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Jordan, Majik and Maria
« on: August 6th, 2010»
Thanks a lot Kingy. I had a great time at the bootcamp!!. It was also an invaluable learning experience which will give me a solid foundation to build upon. All of the instructors, including you, were helpful and fun to work with!.
Thanks,
Ken
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Jordan, Beckster and Chloe
« on: July 26th, 2010»
I now feel different from when I went up to the UK considering only 2 weeks or so have passed I am feeling much better in approaching people in general. I am even taking the assignment seriously, that of speaking to 3 different strangers a day to become more fluent in speaking to the public. Finally after so much deep thinking whether to do the boot camp or not, I honestly from deep of my heart made the right decision. I should have done this ages ago. In fact this boot camp was the greatest experience I ever had that I am taking another one with my best friends in October (already booked flights, accommodation, etc). This experience was not just having fun but it’s having fun + building yourself and learning new things at the same time (getting those big ahhas!!) so it’s a fine package believe me. I was scared only of thinking of going up to the UK at first I really needed to get out of my comfort zone, by traveling a long distance alone, since I am not from the UK and had been researching boot camps like this, so decided mostly by the price as it was very achievable!
So, Friday was the first day I was very excited after meeting everyone we went for a 2 hour lecture which for me was a boost of confidence as I rarely speak in front of a group of strangers so that was definitely my second big achievement in pushing myself after the first one which was of going to the UK alone (was scary lol). In this lecture introduction everyone had to give his own story why we are attending. My story is that I am coming from a difficult past in which I was bullied when I was young from my school friends, been called names in front of women whilst growing up and having all these girls laughing in your face was pretty AFC, my family teasing me and having nothing to say back was pretty depressing for me too as I grew older (present days). So I realized I had to do something therefore I took great amounts of energies to get out of this shyness and become a mature confident man (on the way) by just getting out there and taking action not just by reading books. In fact these instructors told me that it should be 1/3 theory and 2/3 action! After the intro we had some approaching with a few warm ups by just asking for directions, time, where can we go for the evening, etc in Leister Square. After we went to a bar (forgot the name) and was pushed to talk to some women I even had a great 15 minutes or so talk with 3 women and Kingy helping me in the set…I later tried even to kiss close one of these but without success as she said she had a boyfriend back home lollll ouch!
Saturday then was the worst of all 3 days for me as I could not approach even one woman, was totally scared and frozen. Kingy gave me some deep thinking and talking on what am I feeling and how to take control of myself by just going up on a woman and telling her “please reject me” as a joke (since my fear was that women will reject me for just talking to them) we had great laughs by doing this and it was very helpful to think differently and from another perspective by just going up and getting rejected on purpose. This was not only fun but pheeewwww I released some of the tension (like a bomb explosion lollll) By doing so I literally started not giving a damn of what people are thinking of you (that was a great part and realization for me in which to build myself up and give myself a boost of positivity by not thinking too hard or negatively about myself). Later that night at tiger tiger bar we went on the dance floor and had some pretty girls dancing around us which was pretty cool and gave myself a push. Had opened 2 women alone from Spain woohooo finally, but didn’t stay long in the set and was told by the instructors to stay longer and talk on anything - just be there in the moment and talk; it’s how you say it and not what you say so I definitely have to build myself up more on this part. Overall Saturday was so and so I preferred Friday honestly!
But the biggest of all 3 days was when I had lots of other big ahhas…on Sunday as we approached lots of women in day game, first by simply asking directions for a warm up then getting more into the conversations and actually staying in for a while and having a decent conversation in which both parties could understand …man those bars are so loud to have a chat! I personally had a great 5 minutes chat simply by talking to this cute local girl that was so happy to see me lollll, we talked on music in general and what type of music we both like, places around London to hang out, if it was my first time in London (she literally kept on asking questions – cute!!). I realized that girls and strangers in general are not that scary to approach the more I was doing it the more fun I was having in fact I jumped with joy and hugged Cupid on the way back as it was so fun and a great achievement for me loll! Later that day we were told what are the best clothes to wear to attract women and have fun with it (pea cocking) by Cupid and Cieran, more tools to use yeahhhh!!! We then headed towards China town after an exquisite grasshopper drink which I never took before in my country, (please note that I now own my own juicer as I cannot live without it anymore lollll), here we went for some meditation and after we met Chloe (the gorgeous HB Helper) which I enjoyed training with very much as the role playing was very original, exiting and very practical to use on the field, was given indications of where to improve myself again…mostly body language and my inner game (beliefs, etc)….but personally the cherry on top of the cake was when we met Beckster at the same bar later that evening…this guy MANNN THIS GUY IS FANTASTICCCCCCC he gave us so muchhhhhhhhhh information to use that a whole new dimension opened for me at that time like NEO in the MATRIX (no joke!!!!). His body language, enthusiasm, passion, purpose, charm were extremely fabulous….I especially adored and loved the part when he approached 3 women with so ease from Germany on the way to O’neals bar, he was so confident that he turned the whole scene around by just being playful and open minded, the girls were so happy to see him and I just wanted to be him loll!!!
Guys my whole summary is that I’ve been my own worst enemy far too long, I started even boxing to get out my aggressiveness, made even things with certain type of friends which I used to be ashamed of myself just to seek for approval and attention and be accepted and be part of a group, all that is bull!!!!, all we need is more people in society like these amazing guys to teach people like me. + Consider building your inner self by listening more to yourself and what you really want in life and go for it no matter what. A boot camp like this helps not only in picking up women and having a laugh, apart from being a great start but you can see a whole puzzle come together since every part of your life can be handled with much more ease by not being hard on yourself, like I was doing. These guys were all great mentors (I am not being paid btw for this) and having a lot to teach and they definitely go the extra mile with you like Kingy done with me at the end on Sunday. We had a deep psychological discussion on my inner beliefs alone at the casino. He told me that I was too hard on myself he even pointed out some directions which I will start taking such as accepting more who I am and not trying to be someone big which is out of reach as per my goals I had. My expectations in life after what I’ve been through in the past were to change everything in a short period of time and was putting myself down and becoming so anxious about how people will see me and think of me till a point that some of my hair fell off with all this paranoia and shit! These goals I had were far too out of reach.
Overall….yo men out there, I cry out loud from deep of my soul - please do take action if you feel you need a f@#& change don’t stay waiting for something to happen just take few small steps at a time on building yourselves and stop wasting time on finding alibis and excuses of playing video games, not going out because you have no money, or your dog got a bite off your jeans and have nothing to wear!!! Go for such a boot camp you won’t regret. I wish all these mentors the best of success they are big no HUGE people with what they are doing, this should be taught at school, I personally had never been so excited to go to school
THEREFORE GUYS PLEASE DO TAKE ACTION is not about picking up women only but GETTING A LIFE! A LIFE THAT YOU ALWAYS WANTED OR ENVIED FOR OTHERS HAD IT AND YOU ARE STILL ON THE SHELF COS YOU COULDN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT, BECAUSE YOU NEVER LISTENED TO YOUR REAL SELF, BUT JUST LISTENED TO OTHERS WHO WANTED YOU TO STAY WHERE YOU ARE JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE SCARED THEY WILL BE LEFT BEHING,
I know this cause I was there! Love you all out there.
J from far away land!!!
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Jordan, Beckster and Chloe
« on: July 26th, 2010»
Hi again chaps,
As promised, heres my review. Feel free to use this as you please. Hope you
like it.
Friday evening: we managed to meet up with the instructors and other
students in the West End and headed off to a quiet corner in a nearby casino
for our first bit of theory. Whilst Kingy and Cupid had a lot of interesting
things to say, they didnt overload us with information, and they pretty
much got straight to the point: here are 5 openers and a couple of routines,
this is what you need to be trying to do kino, qualification, use of
tonality, etc.
We headed down to Leicester Square to start doing street approaches,
beginning with simple exercises like asking for directions, then moving up
to indirect openers. It was good, presented in a structured way, and got
everyone warmed up nicely. I got over my nerves pretty quickly, and managed
to turn my approach anxiety into something akin to approach eagerness. A
huge change. We moved into a pub and started approaching sets in there. I
got straight into a 4-set of Irish girls, one of whom was very cute and
giving me plenty of IOIs eye contact, laughing etc. I probably spent too
long talking to them, and didnt get that many more approaches in before the
pub closed, but I left on a high, feeling like Id broken new ground, and
feeling pretty good about it.
Saturday we headed to Tiger Tiger, found a quiet corner while the coaches
talked more theory conversation threading, leaning in, kino and
escalation. The talk became a bit difficult as the music got too loud to
hear, possibly not the best location for it. So we got stuck into club game,
which is a whole different thing, and something that has always eluded me.
Im a conversationalist, and Ive never done well in clubs. Tiger Tiger is a
big venue, so its easy to get split up, plus it got really crowded, so
again, we all kept getting split up. I made quite a few approaches, but
nothing interesting, and I didnt close anything. I was definitely out of my
comfort zone, and I guess I made progress of a sort, but I found it much
harder and less rewarding than the day before.
Sunday we talked a bit about direct openers and how to direct conversation
on the street, how to number close, and when to text after meeting someone,
and then headed to Trafalgar Square to make some approaches. The main
problem with the West End is that I seemed to run into a lot of people that
were too young, too married, or too unable to speak English! but I made
approaches and got a couple of (albeit flaky) number closes. But hey, I got
numbers in the street! And Ive never done that before. We headed back to
Leicester Square and did a few more approaches there, but my energy levels
were flagging and so the results I got were poor.
Eventually we headed inside again, and did the one-on-one session with HB
helper Chloe. I got some good feedback about holding eye contact, but I
think we all found role-play chatting-someone-up quite difficult. Imagine
youre in a bar with a group of people and someone says to you
Ok, be
funny. Right now. Go! Most likely you open youre mouth and all you can say
is, Er
It was kinda like that. Nevertheless, everyone gave it a good go,
and I reckon a few hours of this, rather than a few minutes, would yield
some amazing results. A worthwhile exercise.
Finally Beckster came in and talked us through one of his opening,
escalation and closing routines. Beckster is a great example of how powerful
communication is when you are totally congruent. The routines he
demonstrated were really clever and you see they would be very powerful in
field if you practised them. But more than anything his passion, energy and
body language were intense, and a really good example of where you want to
be either as a PUA or a communicator of any sort. Personally, I learnt a lot
just from watching how he talks, and the content was awesome too.
Overall then, for under £500 this is some of the best personal development
training Ive done. Would I recommend this to a friend? Absolutely. Men do
all sorts of things to be more attractive to women be in a band, become a
DJ, become rich, drive an expensive car I know I have! Forget all of that
rubbish. It is about eliminating your own fears and becoming an expert
communicator, and this bootcamp is a great way to get started on both of
those things. I enrolled on this bootcamp because I had reached a point
where I HAD to do something to change my life. Dont wait till you reach
that point. If youre even thinking about it, just go ahead and do it. You
wont regret it. And, for the record, this is a completely independent
review. Id never met Kingy or any of the other coaches before. I paid full
price for the bootcamp, and Im not getting paid for this review!
Big love, keep growing.
KA.
London
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Majik, Beckster and Chloe
« on: July 20th, 2010»
Hey Kingy,
Thanks again for your kind words the other day man. I'm actually finding that the part about becoming a man when you have to is very true and Im finding that the process of becoming that man for myself and my family is keeping me very centred and focused right now.
With that in mind I would love to come up to London and do some one on ones with you guys. The weekend of Friday 30th and Saturday 31st July would be perfect for me as I'm already taking my mum to London to stay with my sister for that weekend. Ideally I would like 4 hours with Cupid on the Friday night (8 til 12 maybe?), then a few hours day game with you on the Saturday followed by 4 hours with Majik on the Saturday night (again 8 til 12 would be perfect). Is this or something similar possible my friend, and if so what do I do next?
Yours,
Jon
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Majik and Chloe
« on: July 20th, 2010»
Cheers for a great weekend Kingy,
I got alot out of it, I'll let you know how things go
Dave
6-2 Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran, Majik and Chloe
« on: July 20th, 2010»
Hey Kingy,
thanks for the follow up mail, I just like to personally thank you all for making us feel relaxed and welcome it was great to learn with you Cieran, Roger and Adil, at no point did I feel like just a client. please thank Adil for those little pushes and encouragement I needed on saturday and picking up my energy and trying to bring me out of my shell with bike talk ;). I was impressed by the extensive feedback you gave at the end of the course and I really appreciate now your emphasis on the inner game aspects. I feel very positive internal benifits from the training and I am pursuing this to improve my life and game.
keep up the great work.
sincerely all the best,
tim
1-1 Bootcamp: Cieran and Majik
« on: July 1st, 2010»
Hi Kingy,.
The Training was great. Both Majik and Cieran are really great guys and did their upmost to help me out. It was certainly challenging and a rollercoaster of emotions.
Very positive Overall, now I have to push myself to go out there and do it again. Thanks Again!
V
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Beckster, Cupid, Cieran, Majik and Jemma
« on: April 11th, 2010»
Alright, i'll be the first. i had amazing fun with people on saturday there was a lot of sets cant remember them all, a few stood out though.
Those girls dressed as batman and wonder woman i remember saying you lot are a bit under dressed, you could have made an effort! later i went and re-introduced myself in my veil and boa.
The hen night set was great fun. i regularly went and chatted with them, i was dancing with them and there was a load of girls all sat by the dance floor i started pulling them up to dance it was great because people assume that you are the leader of the group and in reality i didn't know any of them. The veil and boa was brilliant, i had girls coming up to me and chatting to me randomly.
Me and v was chatting to a set but i found the girl i was speaking to a bit strange she started asking me about my childhood? i just teased her a bit
I tried talking to the j's set but i couldn't get past the language barrier, so i gave up. It was a bit too low energy for me.
Russian set was great, girls does this make me look gay? haha.
I tried sticking to one set but i noticed the energy of it went down over time that might just be my personality not coming out enough yet. So instead i was switching between 3-4 sets and just keeping it very high level.
Becksters qualifiers are great, i used one on an old mate so see how well they worked and she jumped me!
One set with boys and girls opened me on the way back from toilet and the men was introducing me to the women i found it a bit difficult though because i could not speak to the women without the men chatting to me too, then the club closed and we got kicked out.
I think the big revaluation with me was when i stopped trying to pull women and just started to have fun. Friday i was all about trying to appeal to women big difference to Saturday when i literally did and said what the fuck i felt. I just started speaking to everyone.
Meeting someone called Sarah later i think i met that night, but for the life of me i cant remember which set it was, should be interesting.
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Beckster, Cupid, Cieran, Majik and Layla
« on: March 26th, 2010»
Hey Everyone
I will defo be in touch in a few months for a 1-1.
My weekend report:
Once again I really can't believe how much you guys delivered and like I said to Kingy last night I was expecting alot.
On Friday we opened with one hour of theory and a discussion of our experiences so far followed by some AA removal in Leicester Sq. We then went on to another bar and I managed to talk to two Italians for a good 10 mins. A shy cute girl and her friend. At this point I was too scared to go for a facebook close but I reckon I would have gone away with a friend acceptance. I had a good conversation with two women about god as well and their colleague dragged me in for anohter 10 mins.
Saturday was quite amusing more alot of day game delivery and a walk around central London. Highlights were Cieran opening two HB10's and them instantly laughing and one primping their hair I asked what he opened with and it was "Hi your gorgeous, I'm Cieran" and Cupid pushing me to open two sets that were both very open to guys approaching them (both of which I chickened out of) One of them I ended up getting a facebook close from a nice Finnish girl who unfortunatly is only in London till Tuesday. There were two quite nice Essex girls I wouldn't have minded getting one of their numbers but I never opened or said anything so nothing ventured...
Sunday was the most informative day for me & I got another two facebook closes. It was very interesting when Majic and Beckster came on the scene. This day was spent with some more advanced openers from Beckster, which I can see being very effective but I'm not capable of using them yet, lol. So I look forward to using them. We went to a club and were shown how to dance, how to get a plethora of numbers whilst on the dancefloor and a few interesting things to do to get all the girls dancing around you. We finished by getting some feedback and I thought I would try and end the night on a high I went over and talked to two danish girls and managed to get both of them on facebook. Along with some feeback on how to talk to a girl...let's say out of most guys range. The guys let me hang out with them afterwards & I had a nice chat with one of Becksters GF's.
Majic told me he felt surprised I was even on the camp in the first place and this was tremendosly confidence boosting, Beckster told me that what I should be doing is getting out to some of the Mayfair clubs to practise. He said we would work something out. \o/
The results are clear as the day after the bootcamp I was on the tube and two fairly cute girls looked in my way and I held solid eye contact (credit to beckster & cupid for showing me) one looked away immediately and smiled. Another girl in the supermarket was again giving me eye contact whilst I was making small talk and I held the same eye contact (completly subconciously) and she burst out laughing looked away and went red...I was a bit shocked so I didn't escalate or close, Doh! But what a confidence boost for me! There is no way I could have done that last week..and there is no going back now! This alone makes it worth the money for me. Beckster was showing me this in the club cos he was making all the girls nearby laugh so I said what are you doing and he goes "its just eye contact". If you had told me I would get those results in the space of two days I would have said not possible.
These guys have a very unique style and personality and its quite something to see it happening and what you can do, if you try. They are all very helpful have alot of stuff to share and alot of insights to feedback. They all give a very unique, informative perspective on what you can do to improve and enhance your game.
Excuse the cliché but I am sure I will be looking back on this as one of the most enriching experiences of my life. Thanks again guys and I wish you all the best in your endevours!
Chris.
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran and Chloe
« on: March 9th, 2010»
Thanks for a great weekend.
I'm really not sure where to start and can't remember everything that happened with the detail Benoit does, but it was memorable spending time with three instructors who most defiantly qualify for the 'A' in PUA with interesting variance in style between them and whose continuous encouragement has certainly altered my state of mind.
The other guys on the boot camp were also great to spend time with, adding to the overall experience.
If I remember one set from the weekend it would be a two set approached with the 'is kissing cheating' opener - when trying to number close them to meet up for coffee sometime (thanks to firm encouragement to close from Kingy), they both claimed to have boyfriends. In the face of adversity rather than shrinking from the conversation like a tortoise back into its shell I produced the line "kissing may not be cheating but I guess coffee is?" It got a laugh from the girls and I think illustrates that the blowout didn't impact on my state which it would have a few days earlier.
Talking to so many sets over the weekend also helped me understand the qualities in a woman that are important to me. I really don't think I was that clear in my mind on this before.
I have been told by people outside the PUA community that I would 'love the journey'. It filled me with apprehension when they told me this, I really didn't understand them and it seemed so daunting a 'journey' ahead. I think after this bootcamp I am now on the cusp of loving the journey!
Thanks again
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cieran and Chloe
« on: March 9th, 2010»
Friday
About 1.5 hour of theory with Kingy and Ciearn followed by 3.5 hours infield.
Street game
I opened at least 20 sets. Direct/Hey. I couldn’t get most of the girls to stop
1 Facebook closed: 2 set in direct. 2 Italian girls. Have a ten minutes chat about studying in London and parties. They arrived 2 weeks ago to study and they didn’t have a telephone yet so I took her facebook.
Send her a friend request the day after that she accepted.
Night game (Waxy O'Conner's)
At least 10 sets. Direct opener/Hey. It took me a while to get in state but I saw a progress from set to set.
30 minutes feed back from Kingy and Cieran at the end of the night. Sean and I went out after for 30 minutes. I was very tired after the day and we just had a beer and a chat.
Saturday
1 hour of theory/Q&A with Cupid and Cieran.
4 hours infield.
At least 20 sets. My first clubbing night without any alcohol and tobacco, I’m pretty happy about that
1 number closed: 2 sets, a cute milf and her hairdresser. Open them with Hey and a smile. They answered me that they just wanted to talk together. I stayed there and managed to hook. Talk about the difference between hairdresser in France and England. Numclose the cute milf at the end. She doesn't live in London and I don’t think I’ll contact her.
1 facebook close. 5 sets of French and German girl. German girl was cuter but I didn’t notice it at first and I directly opened the less cute French girl. She was about 20 and quite alright anyway. Nice group interaction at the beginning. Steve came in the set later and I isolated the French girl from the group thanks to him. 15 minutes talk, she was looking quite into me but I didn’t escalate. Ask for her number, she told me her phone was new and she couldn’t remember her number. She gave me her facebook. She accepted my friend request toady.
It is quite impossible to know if a set is going to be good or not before going in. Some ugly girls were bitchy and some very cute girls were friendly and clearly there to meet new people.
Sunday
1 hour of theory with cupic, cieran and kingy
Street game at least 30 sets
Hard start but went well later on. Stopped and had a talk with most of the sets. I could have closed a fair number of girls if I was more confident/less stress.
1 numclose. A bored girl from Slovenia who was waiting for a friends. She was living on Tuesday, I was busy on Monday with friends so I didn’t contact her.
Za Zen and “love” meditation pretty cool and pretty useful. My main sticky point is that I look too stress when I enter a set and mediation can help. It would have been cool to see a monk.
HB helper Chloe. Very nice girl. Practise opening. Feedback: need to look less stress and be chickier. Feedback on cloth: I'm a bit to generic.
Night game in Waxy O'Conner's. 3 sets. I tried canned opener and didn’t really enjoy it.
Feedback from the instructor.
Lessons learnt
- I opened a lot in street and see that it can work for me. I need to push myself a bit more and it will become an habit
- I have never opened directly before. It works pretty well and I love it.
- I want to introduce more fun in the conversation and need to practice more to be more relax and calibrate it.
I’m very happy to meet Rich, Steve and Shean who all have different personalities but all are great persons. Seeing their social interactions also help a lot to realise what was wrong/right in what I was doing.
Action plan for the next 30 days:
Open 3 sets a day in direct on the way to work or lunch time.
Nigh game at least twice a week.
Find some wings/friends to make the way more pleasurable.
Be more relax before opening and practice more to become more confident.
Introduce more Kino during the interaction.
Keep a diary.
Instructors
They all had different experiences and have different personalities which is great and make it easier to relate with and find our own style.
Cieran is 10m high and full of joy from the toes to the hair. He has a contagious fun vibe and he is an opening machine. It was great to see him opening so many sets. In-sight form his own experience were very useful.
Cupid has a cool chicky vibe, he is very focus on what we want to improve and goes straight to the point.
Kingy has a more alpha attitude and dominant presence. It does not talk a lot but always leads the conversation and get amazing results.
-B
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cosmic, Cieran and Chloe
« on: Feb 1st, 2010»
Hi Kingy,
I just wanted to thank you and your team again. I had the
opportunity to put your techniques into practice last night with
complete success. I felt like the centre of attention, breaking mixed
sets with ease and number closing as if it was the most natural thing
in world... The best part though was seeing my mates jaws drop as I
number closed the barmaid.
It's not just my mates that have noticed the difference, but my work
collegues too have commented on my increased confidence and positivity.
I cannot thank you enough!
I wish you all the best in your future endeavors
Seeya
Stu
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cosmic, Cieran and Chloe
« on: Feb 1st, 2010»
Hey guys,
It was an absolute pleasure to meet you all and work with you guys over the weekend.
It was a lot of fun and very revealing for all of us I'm sure.
Do keep in touch and gimme a shout if you ever want to come down and check out some comedy.
Best regards,
Imran
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid, Cosmic, Cieran and Chloe
« on: Feb 1st, 2010»
Guys,
Just to echo Imran's words, was a great weekend and good to meet some great people like yourselves.
Kingy, thanks for all your help. You and the other guys are great teachers, approachable and encouraging guys and I wish you every success for the future.
If any of you fancy meeting up or coming down to get some Essex clunge drop me a line, would be good to hear from you.
Lee
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid,
« on: Jan 10th, 2010»
Kingy and Co. were awesome, seriously. I was a little skeptical at first but I thought that I'd go for it anyway, I'm glad that I did.
I had a weekend with him and Cupid and they were great, they didn't give up when I thought that I couldn't approach. I wont pretend that it's easy but as with anything it takes practice.
I'm going to get better at talking to women and see these guys again in a few months...
Give them a bell and see what they can do for ya...!...
Cheers,
Leon...
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid
« on: December 5th, 2009»
Hey Kingy,
Thanks for an awesome weekend dude...it was an amazing experience.
I am definitely gonna try this stuff out...
By the way, the quote i gave you last night "I miss 100% of the shots that I don't take" is from the legendary basketball player Michael Jordan.
Cheers,
Terry
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cupid
« on: December 5th, 2009»
Thanks for the email - think I need someone to give me book vouchers with all of these books.
He claimed not to have been disapproving and would never have realized what I was up to if he had seen us. He claimed he only said he felt I would know what to do when the time was right and therefore had no need for training - I didn't agree with him and am in even greater dis-agreement with him now!
I am sure I will be back for more tuition - any suggestion of when this is useful?
The weekend was inspiring to see you and cupid at work both approaching and remaining unwaveringly positive however trying your students were.
Thanks again - I am certain looking back this weekend will be on my already sizable list of life changing experiences in 2009.
regards
Richard
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cosmic, Cupid
« on: November 3rd, 2009»
Hey Kingy
It was a really GREAT bootcamp. Thanks again. You were really caring
about us, like a good coach does and on the other hand you taught us
all the essentials in a really concentrated way.
At Gatwick today I found a really great book about building
confidence, state changes, comfortzones. It's a NLP book from David
Molden and Pat Hutchinson, title: how to be confident using the power
of nlp. If you don't know it yet, you definitely should get yourself
one as material for your trainings. It's written in a challenging but
funny and motivating style. And quite a lot of the concepts you told
me about getting over AA and that are repeated in the book.
Bye, Martin
PS: Guess what: my plane tonight had massive approach anxiety. It took
us half an hour flying several times over vienna, before it finally
got the nerves together and made kino with the runway - reminded me
sort of Topshop yesterday, but the plane did worse than me... :-)
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Cosmic, Cupid
« on: November 3rd, 2009»
Hi,
Just a quick email, to thank you for helping me overcome, practically all my AA, and putting on a wonderful bootcamp.
It was really useful, and no doubt I will be recommending you to a couple of other guys I know, that may be interested.
I aprreciated the constant feedback, and constant ability to answer my endless specific questions.
Please can you also re-thank on my behalf, Cupid, and Cosmic, and the Hot Babe!(Lucy?)-They were all fantastic too!
I'll keep you posted, and no doubt, i'll be buzzing with some questions soon.
Take care and keep gaming,
Cheers,
Prit.
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Max, Cosmic
« on: September 29th, 2009»
These guys are for real. The best weekend ever!
What can I say, it was a life changing experience the best weekend of my life ever.
Kingy is just simply amazing. Not just an instructor but a mentor and a friend which made the whole experience so personalised. And the rest of the instructors at PUA Method are just great too.
For me that weekend will always be a legend. Looking back I can’t even believe I was approaching complete strangers and starting random conversations and becoming part of their group within minutes. I was walking up to women in the street, clubs and bars and the vast majority of them were friendly and once talking I wondered why I hesitated in the first place. The highlights of the weekend was going straight into a club pretty early in the evening and being the only ones in the whole place talking and dancing with women while all the other guys just huldele up against the wall. It was just awesome to be a club and dancing with two girls one on the front and one on the back like something out of a Hip-Hop video and other women watching. This has never ever ever happened to me before!!!
Apart from the bars and clubs, the guys at PUA Method took great deal of care to explain what attracts women, personality traits of an alpha male, body language, grooming and to me the most important the qualities I would like to have in a women rather than just accepting any woman just because I feel lucky she is interested in me in the first place. They gave me the tools to meet women and it’s working. On the second day there was a model that I got to practice different conversational situations on. I won’t spoil it for you but she was great, a really nice girl and gave me a lot of useful feedback. I even met a Zen monk that taught me how to meditate. That one experience alone was enough to transform my life. All my friends, family and work colleges have noticed that I’m so much happier and confident. Which I am. I wake up everyday knowing today is going to be a good day.
I will be forever in Kingys’ debt. It was so much more than just meeting women but has transformed my whole life and more so my outlook on life. My self confidence and esteem have never been so high. What the bootcamp done was show me what is possible, what I am capable of and that anything is possible with the right frame of mind. These guys are for real and it was well worth it.
Kingy feel free to pass my details on to anyone that would like to know more about my bootcamp experience. As I highly recommend it and have been recommending it to all my friends!!
Cheers PUA Method you’re the best!!!
Full Bootcamp: Kingy, Max, Cosmic
« on: August 30th, 2009»
Hey dude,
The weekend was just off the wall, I'm still buzzing:)
You were so right everyones saying I'm different and people are just saying hello to me on the street. Still got aa but I've grown so much since last week. So those two girl after you left (I think it was your doing) the kino and ioi was way high but I still have to learn to close instead of bailing out out espesially after when I moved my hand on her back while dancing she moved to to her bum. But I figure its still a lot further than I've ever been. My boss keeps asking what did I get up to becos I can't stop laughing. A big thank you from me and if you could tell everyone at pua method thanks so much as I'm such a better person inside bcos of all of you guys. I could go on forever. The meditation was wicked to and really helps my state.
Cheers man your the greatest!
Otis
Kingy, Cupid Bootcamp
« on: June 7th, 2009»
Weekend was mind-blowing. I think more than anything else, it changed
my perspective on 'the game'. In the purest form, there is nothing
actually to DO in pick up, only to relax and allow it for it to
happen. I think I had a lot of beliefs that I had to do certain
things, tricks to get girls, a la MM... But watching you in field and
practicing what you taught made me see that natural game is
a) very effective
b) a hell lot of fun
c) win-win!
because hey, if i'm having fun, who cares anyway right? heh.
it feels like natural game is very congruent with my spiritual /
dominant thought systems.
key thing for me now is to keep at it. i have to make space in my life
for women / sarging / gaming, which part of me, the 'zen monk',
resists because all he wants is peace and quiet.. heh.
i had a lot of fun this weekend, and certainly learnt a lot. i thank
you for that. =)
keep in touch!
Ken
Kingy 4 on 1
« on: May 14th, 2009»
After some briefing and learning what each of us wanted to work on in order to up our game. Kingy set us out to open sets. It was about day game here.
Opened a few sets and got blown off in all of them… which was funny… coz I was really in state today and was looking forward to it. But I was determined to not let it break my state and just kept going at it. In the middle of these sets we would of course get back to kingy and he would give us these snippets of advice … and these were really helpful.
Things were getting better now and I was getting rid of AA. I have a problem where, I can’t really approach any girl. Unless I feel really attracted to one, there was no way that I could approach them, simply because I can’t be genuine. So instead of pushing me into sets, Kingy suggested that I point out the ones that I liked and then He would encourage me to run after her. Somehow this worked beautifully… I was getting positive results. I can’t really put everything down because there were just too many.
We moved on to HMV and quickly spread out and started opening sets. After a nice interaction with a German girl, Kingy pointed out this HB9 blond girl, who had a body to die for. And simply said go for it. By this time he had discussed a lot about body language, so I took the right steps and approached her in a very casual way… (Details would be in the LR 
.. later). We hit it off really well and she wanted to go clubbing with me later in the night. Made arrangements to meet her later, and then opened a few more sets there and then split when the guys became wary about security observing us.
Moved on to Trafalgar square, while Kingy was continuously giving advice on approaching different kinds of sets and about mistakes that we were making while approaching. Trafalgar square, and started opening more sets. All going very well. Winged X to get some photo taking openings.. Didn’t really role well though.. But talent was scant so was not too motivated. Watched Kingy opening a couple of sets with such smoothness it actually made me envious. Ha ha .. But very good sets and we have very similar tastes in women, so was good to see him opening without hesitation. Made me believe in what was possible.
Moved on to China town for some early dinner before we hit the clubs, and more talk on pick up and inner game. Don’t remember what it was but it was good.
We moved on to OnAnon and Kingy gave us a quick briefing on club game and Kino and escalation tactics. I had to leave to pick up HB9 ….. What happened after that is another report…
Overall .. This thing that Kingy offers …. It’s Gold!!
He’s basically a fun guy who enjoys pick up and loves sharing it with others.
I’d recommend anyone who wants to have a blast while learning, ha ha
JBlaze
AFC Kingy 1 on 1
« on: March 17th, 2009»
Hey Kingy!
Happy St. Patrick's day! Thanks a lot for your help in the last bootcamp, loco. That thursday you really helped me to help myself and to make important adjustments to sharpen and polish my social skills. You know man, since then I have worked with patience and tenacity , towards the goal of internalizing the concept of smoothness to each one of my daily interactions with everyone(I took care not to be obsessed with the mission and forget the other important centres of my life.). Now I am 10 times more confident and I have started to calibrate my energy levels with great precission. This has helped me to see myself gaming in third person and going under the radar very easily.This is just fantastic!
My twin brothers and my two cousins are amazed by the confidence and coolness with wich I approach sets of 8, 9's and 10's. Once we were waiting for the bus and one of the twins, D who is a pure natural, challenged me to open a set of two 8,5 girls. I calibrated my engines and succesfully opened the set with the "I'm sorry for being late girls" opener. My relatives were surprised by the positive reaction of the pair of 8.5 girls. And even later in the bus I used the "who lies more" opener including them in a conversation with a 9.HAHA!
In addition, the other day I discovered that "smooth dancing" is one of my best hooks. In a night club, I was just training "smooth dancing" alone, to apply it in Paraguay, I was showing that I always really enjoy myself and that I dont give a fuck what other people think and seven girls in diferent moments of the night approached and started sexy dancing with me just like that! without saying a word. Suddenly, out of nowhere two czech girls came and started dancing with me at the same time! one in front of me and the other from behind the later grabbed my butt!!, I thought I was dreaming but internalizing the concept of smoothness to the way I dance has done wonders for my game.
Now I am gaming a rumanian and a georgian and what is pretty cool is that we are having fun haha!
I go back to my country the 4th of april. You know, I will definitely miss London but what you taught me and the advice you gave me will always be with me wherever I go.
I hope some day we can go sarge together again and I am sure that that day will arrive sooner or later.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH HERMANO, TE DESEO LO MEJOR, SALUD Y EXITOS EN TODO LO QUE EMPRENDAS.
Hasta la vista,
Arma
AFC Kingy and Yad 1 on 1
« on: Feb 10, 2009»
I can't speak highly enough about this bootcamp, it was simply an awesome experience. I am already a different, new-improved person to what I was just a few days ago.
Night game gave me a new set of powerful preperation tools which I could apply immediately. I was able to witness up close how a true pro works a night club and I was pushed well out of my comfort zone. The feedback I got at the end of the night was also gold.
The second day's street game was simply mind-blowing. It was in fact one of the most amazing experiences of my life. My approach anxiety has finally been delt a death blow! And that day made a mockery of the looks issue I had with myself and what I had always told myself was and wasn't possible with women that were so called out of my league.
Thanks again guys!
Steve
AFC Kingy 1 on 1
« on: Jan 23, 2009»
Took a boot camp with AFC Kingy tonight. It cost £80 for four hours, and the website to go to is http://www.puamethod.com/.Met up with him at Tiger Tiger after he'd been delayed, which stopped us from meeting at Leicester Square station. He gave me the mission of finding the place, as I'd never been. Decided it would be a good idea to approach women, although their directions weren't that good, I found it in the end.
Decamped to a cafe near Leicester Square, gave him some background, and we went over some various ideas. Then off to Onandon (another first), and he gave me some more tips, as well as running through some improv stuff.
I was able to use some of the improv stuff after Kingy went off to the gents on an attractive Italian woman. We had a good chat, and it was going well. I was all 'hmm, so what's the best way to keep in contact', and lo and behold, she gave me her number. Went outside to have a cigarette with her when her friend pops up, so I go back and see Kingy, who is very encouraging.
After some more info about different ways to approach/open, and we then see HBItalian and her French friend. Kingy wings really well, giving advice and encouragement, at one point, he's saying and me and HBItalian go off for a bit of a dance.
Unfortunately, it all goes tits up. I decide it's a good idea to run Beckster's Three Criteria. I've never done this before. It didn't work. Ouch.
Just to make it absolutely clear, running with the Three Criteria was my idea, and my idea alone!
We then go and speak to another set of girls, going a tad more indirect on them (there's this glowstick thing going on), and it's good. They ask us to take a picture.We move on, I'm getting more advice from Kingy.
Go out for a smoke and open a set of fit Asian girls (seemed to be a lot there!), getting a decent vibe with one of the girls, but they go back in.
I then approach a set, get talking to one of them who (and thinking about it, this is fucking cheeky!) proceeds to give me fashion advice. I wouldn't mind, but I reckon I looked the nuts in my three-piece suit (I'd come straight from work, you see).
Bear in mind I'm getting feedback, advice and support from Kingy while all this is happening. Great stuff!
By this point I really do have to dash, and just manage to get the last train home. But it was a very, very good evening.
A note about Kingy - he's a very good, understanding and helpful instructor. He pointed out some things to me which I hadn't noticed about myself, and he gave me a lot of support. He helped push me into sets and gave some advice which I feel I can take with me. He made things easy to understand and straightforward, and he's also very comfortable around women, which is encouraging.
All in all, a great night, I learned a lot, and it was great VFM, too. Highly recommended, and I look forward to doing it again some time!
Prize
AFC Kingy 1 on 1
« on: Jan 12, 2009»
I have done an epic five hour daygame bootcamp with AFC Kingy. We met outside Picadilly and went to a pub. We discussed a little theory, our backgrounds and what I wanted out of the bootcamp.
We did state building excercises in the pub and around Leicester Square. At first I found them quite embarrassing, but got used to them as the day went by. I saw the funny side of making native Indian yells in the middle of the square.
I started of by randomly saying “Hello” to strangers. This moved to telling five girls I’m interested in them in five minutes. At this point Kingy had taken all my money and I had to accomplish the task if I was ever to see my money again lol.
The final last chunk of the day was doing openers in a department store (Selfridges, I think). At this point my approach anxiety was diminishing. I was even opening unaided. There were some funny moments joking around with the shop assistants, and being pampered with creams.
I would highly recommend Kingy to anyone who is beginning to get into Game. He will blow open your reality.
AFC Kingy 1 on 1
« on: Nov 28, 2008, 01:13:21 AM »
I just finished 2 1 on 1 bootcamps with AFCKingy.
Really enjoyed it as I managed to work on my qualifications a lot more
and a personal key sticking point for me of not giving away your power, while still providing value in an interaction was something i managed to work on.
basically the bootcamp starts with a sit down and a discussion of key concepts first (both were in Tiger tiger) then a practice outside in the street or in a bar. what i liked about AFCKingy is
1. the inner game issues were really helpful (everybody in London wants to meet you, thus your body language would reflect that - position yourself like you own the place)
2. build an attractive lifestyle - meet cool people and get to know them (especially girls - AFCKingy has a really funny tactic to change the dating scenario)
3. being aware of your value and where it is in an interaction (with girls, it increases, without, generally people use the Mystery method style of displaying value)
4. he would set a specific sticking point (body language, voice projection, sexual moving in and out) to work on in a specific set, which would help me have a goal in the interaction.
5. his laid back style was also fun to watch and i enjoyed the pre-run in Leichester Square of getting blown out on purpose. EGO STRIP!
6. in the bar, a girl seriously asked him to follow her to the toilet upon just 3 mins of chatting (i couldn't believe my eyes lol)
7. he would speak in set "qualify", or "close" which was a great hands on way for me to improve and practice my calibration
8. he would also point out meta-game scenarios (like the timing of the night - not to be the strange guys gaming the only girls in the top level of the bar, seeing the girls buying their drink)
9. playful push pull - hug (you are so gorgeous), push away (too bad you're not my type) - its the vibe that is key though, like you make it blatantly obvious you're playing with them
10. the mindest of being a high value male - qualification - the key of using a slightly judgmental tone to screen girls - changes the dynamics extremely ranging from gentle to large qualifications.
there were a particular 2 set of hot girls in the bar that i had great interactions (one of them - the older one 26 was on a pub crawl with her friends - damn i realise i should have isolated her actually - she's in town for 2 more days - these are the ones that i want to be able to game well!)
AFCKingy has a passion to help people so i'd recommend him for newbies and intermediates alike as its a good experience just going out and trying with feedback!
Shameless
AFC Kingy 1 on 1
« on: Nov 14, 2008, 12:54:21 AM »
Met Kingy in Piccadilly, me arriving 10 mins late and having found a missed call and text from him already as I got out of the tube. We said hello and my first impressions of him were that he was decidedly underwhelming - no outrageous peacocking clothing, well-presented but not razor sharp, friendly enough but not oozing charisma, in other words he was no James Dean. We proceeded to walk at a fast pace towards Leicester Sq. I tried to make conversation which he responded to but he seemed pre-occupied, as if his thoughts were elsewhere. Not to judge too early on and having also turned up late I decided to go with the flow but it would be a lie to say that doubts werent flashing through my mind, but I put them to bay for myself rather than anything else.
We briskly checked out a couple of bars - too noisy, or nowhere to sit. Kingy then led me to Tiger Tiger where we found a quiet spot on the basement dancefloor. We bought a couple of drinks which we agreed to buy rounds in turn. He also had the audacity to ask the barman if it was possible to keep the music down for the next 20 mins or so - I was starting to like him. We sat and he gave me a run-through of his history and experience, which I did aswell. He then started to talk about some principles of game. Having already been involved in the game on-off for the last 10 months or so I wasnt overly expecting to be told of anything that I hadnt previously heard about. At that point he asked me to approach a group and once I returned he mentioned some group dynamics and game related to this which was new to me. He also went on to talk about the 4 different levels/types of game and brain psychology/thinking patterns of men and women, all of which I hadnt heard about before.
Now it was time to open sets. We wandered through the bar and he would ask me to open, but with different objectives each time. One time to get blown out, other times to play amusing games (the penis game is particularly interesting), sometimes to open one set with another set, testing various different openers, using my own openers, and all the while he would make observations and give me advice on certain aspects including body language, kino and numerous tricks and techniques. We also did various exercises and he showed me lots of demonstrations, and all the while this was kept fun. Incidentally to see Kingy in field you realise just how relaxed and comfortable he is with women, and how they respond to him - I think his game is deceptively subtle and understated but effective.
This was the first bootcamp I have ever taken which should be noted but as far as my opinion is worth I think it is ultimately down to the individual taking the bootcamp how much he gets out of it and the lessons he learns. Yes I learned various skills and techniques and insights from Kingy but I would say that the greatest realisation I had from this was the possibilities of game, just how much you can acheive from this. I also had to face some of my own shortcomings - there was a point in the night where I found myself getting rejected from some sets which started to affect me - Kingy talked me through these and mentioned about how 'I will wake up tomorrow with my reality being stripped' which made a big impact on me. My reality had been stripped and I understood that previously even in game I would protect myself by not opening the most difficult sets, not pushing outside of my comfort zone as far as I could, and still having a fear of rejection.
When the lesson ended Kingy hung out with me for another hour which was off lesson but I still used it to pick his brain a little. I then randomly saw him a few days later in a bar. I was unsure whether to go upto him as he looked like he was on a one on one which I didnt want to disturb but we did speak for abit and he was friendly and willing to talk. He also sent me a follow up message after the bootcamp of some potential wings he thought would be good for me.
The main critisism I would have of the bootcamp is the length. I think Kingy gave alot of information and shows so much, (all of which is valuable and he clearly left out some basic things which I already knew or had demonstrated), that it is difficult to process it all. Im finding that thinking about it now I am remembering certain aspects. Potentially I could have taken a notepad and pen but that is only useable in the first part of the bootcamp where there is theory. But in-field there is theory mixed in with practical, you are constantly learning but it is unworkable to be writing this down and approaching at the same time. A way to get around this would be to hire Kingy for 2 consecutive sessions where you will expand your reality in the first session and consolidate it in the second.
In conclusion Kingy obviously has great game and is a likable and approachable person who makes no judgements and isnt arrogant in the least. I personally would consider taking another bootcamp with him in a few months time and I thank him for his time and effort.
AFC Kingy 1 on 1
« on: September 10, 2008, 12:54:21 AM »
Just got back from a 1 on 1 with Kingy which I have to say was wicked. Kingy is a top bloke who obviously really knows his stuff. He always knew what to do and say during the evening, which kept the vibe fresh and exciting. There were some brilliant moments, such as where we played the 'penis' game; How many time can you say penis to a girl in set without her realising or getting wierded out. The answer: Surprisingly a lot! I watched Kingy have 10 minute conversation with HBItalian, where he was literally saying it in every sentance! Once he even finished a sentance and said penis as a kind of afterthought, very deliberately. At which point I just cracked up. He got me to try it myself, which was fun, I even caught myself saying 'record penis player' at one point, the girl not reacting. The lesson: you can say what you want, it's what you're communicating thats important.
Another great part of the evening was where he spontaneously recruited a girl on Leicester sq. to give me feedback on my approach by approaching her! The funny thing was that she'd read both Neil Strauss books but still succummbed to Kingy's techniques. Got some valuable feedback from her, also number closed after she admitted she thought I was cute.
Overall I learned a lot and the training was a snip at £45 for pretty much 4 hours. Would definitely do it again and recommend it if he's around.
Peace and love,
Jazzman
AFC Kingy 1 on 1
« on: October 08, 2008, 03:36:03 PM»
I had the chance to have a 1 to 1 with Kingy yesterday. I’m going to describe quickly how the boot camp went and the lesson learnt.
First he quickly told me his story about the game. I told mine, why I’m here, what I have done so far, what do I really want out of it. Then we work on the basic of natural game: how to get in-state, alone or with friends. He made me work on improvisation in order to not run out of things to say. Finally he gave me a few advices on how to be in sets (basically: be smiley, be loud and talk a lot) before hitting Leceister Square for some street game.
I opened 20+ sets. Firstly, he showed me how to stop sets and make me practice till I consistently stopped them. Secondly he asked me to stay until I got rejected. And then he asked me to do a few directs. Kingy has a real fun vibe and it was all good fun.
We moved to Sport Café. It wasn’t very busy at first so we worked on qualifications. We were lucky and meet Fearless. Fearless demonstrate me some direct approaches, and particularly how to put a sexual vibe from the beginning of interaction. He was awesome and he hooked sets very easily.
Then it was time for the pure in-field. I opened a load of sets, about 20. I hooked 4 sets. 2 directs, 2 in directs. I qualified 2 girls. These two sets went good. I was in a crowded area of the bar and try to isolate. They both followed me. I lost the first because his girl friends came back to take her to the dance floor. The other left me after a few minutes when she saw a guy she knew. In the middle of night, Kingy gave me a quick feed back. A funny thing was when Kingy hooked with a girl who was willing to make me practice. Thanks to her, she was nice. Not much concrete results in term of close at the end but a lot of thinks learnt, so it was a great night. He told me at the beginning of the night that if something bad happen it will be is fault (I said penis quite a lot in sets ), now if anything good happen in the next following nights it will be my fault because he showed me some greats way of improvements.
Lesson learnt • How to stop a walking set • How to improvise (I have to practice this one a lot in my everyday life, I love it but it feels very unnatural to me, I don’t talk much most of the time) • How to qualify
Points to improve: • I opened a lot but if I want to progress quicker I need to open even more. No rationalisation, see a nice girl, talk to the nice girl. • Get more talkative in my everyday life • I try to create rapport two quickly; I have to qualify the girl before showing too much interest/getting sexual. • Peacock a bit more
There are quite a few reviews already in this forum about how awesome Kingy is and he really is. He is friendly, modest, he has a great game and he is a great teacher. He looks totally normal and he generates attraction in few seconds just by being. He makes you practice until it is fixed. And moreover he is inspirational; I sometimes questioned my-self after bad nights about why I was doing that, seeing this guy in field give a clue. Hic_et_Nunc
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