PUA Blog
Date: 13th July 2009
Subject: Fill Yourself up with Good Energy | Updated Definitive Guide
Author: Kingy
Hey Guys,
You might have noticed the blog going a bit more Zen in the last few posts. I am finding that my attention and focus is being drawn towards this more and more with the massive increase in results that are coming with it.
Spirituality and Zen are not some far out concepts, they are just viewed like it by some people who are still stuck in the socially conditioned matrix that is society and as we are all in the PUA Community I know for a fact that you are either not like that or are becoming a lot less like that. Russell Brand talks alot about spirituality and enlightenment and he is one of the best naturals I have ever had the pleasure of meeting, even without his fame he could out game 99% of the worlds puas' , definitely someone that offers lots of value!
Have you ever noticed that some people feel totally at ease with themselves and their surroundings?.......... Read More
Date: 10th June 2009
Subject: Beckster and Mystery Bootcamp has one space remaining!
Author: Kingy
Hey Guys,
If you have been lucky enough to stumble apon this page you might not quite believe this is actually happening on the weekend 12th - 14th June.
Yes it is TRUE!
For this weekend Only I have managed to put together Beckster and Mystery for a very Special Bootcamp Deal.
As it is short notice the prices are low but the spaces are Very Limited
Sign up below and get to hangout with two of the Best.......... Read More
Date: 8th June 2009
Subject: Bruce Lee Thoughts on Martial Arts / PUA
Author: Kingy
Hey all :-)
Checkout this video of Bruce Lee talking about his views on martial arts which contrast very nicely to the Venusian Arts / PUA, this video is seriously tight really listen to what he is saying.
Some points of reference:-
0:06
Empty your mind and become formless and shapeless allow yourself to become your environment and yet still be unique and individual.
0:45
Talking about Natural Instinct and Control being the two main forces, if you have too much Natural Instinct you will become very "un-scientific" and if you have too much Control then you will become "mechanical / robotic man........ Read More
Date: 4th June 2009
Subject: Direct Day Game Opening
Author: Kingy
Word up yo ;-)
Above is a break down of the direct day game video I put out earlier this week. In the video I'm focusing specifically on how to open direct during the day. This includes fast moving sets, seated sets, standing sets ......... Read More
Date: 21st May 2009
Subject: Waking Up Early
Author: Kingy
Hey Hey,
Are morning people born or made? In my case it was definitely made. During my university years and then subsequently during my "career" days between the ages of 18 - 25 I have always struggled to get up early. Getting out of bed before midday has been a real struggle and it gets especially bad when those days are winter days, waking up when the sun has gone down did not fill me with inner joy.
I have been getting many emails asking me to do more outer-game posts and what seduction techniques I use when gaming, I shall be focusing on this over the following weeks. Remember though if your inner game isn't locked down, you are feeling tired, you aren't eating good, your state is low then it doesn't matter what technique I teach it is going to bomb. That said there are a several atom bomb type routines or patterns that you can use to get amazing results which I shall be begrudgingly sharing with you over the forth coming days :-p
The article below is taken from a really cool guy and friend of mine Steve P. This is something that has helped me tremendously and I wanted to share it with you guys because I found waking up early and then managing to have a productive day even after a bootcamp was tough to impossible.
Before implementing this I would only wake up early a couple of days in a row and then after a night of hardcore instructing I would lie in bed until midday and that pattern would continue until the end of the week. This is the direct opposite to what I am all about, "productivity, positivity, getting the most out of the day and life" e.t.c. and it drove me nuts. I tried to get to sleep early after bootcamp but found I couldn't because I was still buzzing and then didn't have a plan of when I was going to get up the following day ......... Read More
Date: 11th May 2009
Subject: State Control PUA doing your best
Author: Kingy
I did my best that is all that counts! Did you do your best though?
Imagine this scenario I tell my student to approach a girl but she blows him out and he comes back all depressed. "I tried my best and its still not good enough."
I now put a gun to his head and say you are going to die along with your friends and family if you don't approach her with all your enthusiasm in the most positive way possible. Now Go!!
**Student comes back**
Student: cool that was a lot better.
Kingy: Do you think you could have approached her with even more enthusiasm and positive energy though? ..........Read More
Date: 9th May 2009
Subject: Russell Brand Video and Insights
Author: Kingy
Hey guys,
Sorry for the delay I've been out hardcore infield over the last couple of weeks, teaching and experimenting pretty much every night. I'm buzzing with new ideas and realizations that I've had, expect a lot of action from this blog in the next few weeks.
For the moment checkout this part of a Russell Brand interview, the whole of it is great and has many great insights but this part in particular resonated very well, I think its awesome!
Some points of reference..................Read More
Date: 20th April 2009
Subject: Tapping into your Core PUA Purpose with Intent
Author: Kingy
Hey Hey,
What are we talking about today? Probably one of the most fundamental parts of game to date, Core Purpose.
Before you approach a girl ask yourself why? Sounds silly right, but you will be surprised. There are too many wishy washy reasons as to why you think you should be approaching this girl:-
I need to improve my PUA Skill Set
To impress my friends
I think I'm meant to
No dude the whole purpose of approaching the girl in the first place is because of something, a reason, not what your friends tell you, not what some Guru tells you but actually deep down inside of you there are desires as a man. Society will try and suppress these desires by telling you to.......... Read More
Date: 13th April 2009
Subject: PUA Belief System and Removing Approach Anxiety - Part Three
Author: Kingy
Hey Hey :-)
Summer is coming, time for some Day Game!
Last week I spoke about how to change your belief system by removing those limiting beliefs and enhancing the positive ones.
Having limiting beliefs about approaching women is the reason someone will have Approach Anxiety or AA. Yes if you keep opening you will get used to the process but to remove AA completely this is very hit and miss. You could also actually do more harm than good if you are focusing on the wrong criteria for success. By specifically analyzing what beliefs you have, you can target them and remove them in an instant.
To Recap
STOP - write down in a list beliefs you have about approaching women, both the Pain and Pleasure. Write down as many as you can think of for both sides for five minutes.
Take your three biggest limiting beliefs and now write down all the reasons you can think of why these beliefs are silly.
1. How is this belief ridiculous or absurd?
2. Was the person I learned this belief from worth modeling in this area? ....... Read More
Date: 30th March 2009
Subject: PUA Belief System and Removing Approach Anxiety - Part Two
Author: Kingy
Hey :-)
I hope you successfully completed last weeks mission of writing down a list of achievable goals and doing one good thing for some body else. It is so important that both growth and giving are part of who you are, people will comment on how happy you seem and you will be beaming out this positive giving energy. This is the stuff pua dreams are made of, want to become an ego-less natural and still be a nice guy, this is it right here!
This week I shall be continuing on from Part One and looking at what is driving you as a person.
Getting good at game requires the same mindset that you will need to get good at anything. It requires slow steady progress of you continuing to go out regularly, looking at your sticking points and trying new things. A bootcamp can push you through a platue and stimulate a massive growth spurt but it is also down to you after the training to continue this on, cementing this new you as a permanent change.
Have you ever achieved something in your life? If not then what leads you to believe you are going to get this down..... Read More
Date: 16th March 2009
Subject: PUA Belief System and Removing Approach Anxiety - Part One
Author: Kingy
Ok guys be warned this is post is going to be pretty dense but well worth the read if you are looking to understand how to improve your innergame,
Understanding how you work as a human being is core because if you haven't achieved success in areas of your life other than PUA what leads you to believe you are going to get this down?
Have you ever failed to achieve something in your life?
How you can train yourself to succeed? Lets look at some of of the more common rationalisations for failure people will make:-
I didn't have enough time
I didn't have enough money
I don't have the technology
I don't have the contacts
There are many more reasons but what do these things have in common?
They are all missing resources. You can be missing all of these things but this is not usually the defining factor of why you didn't achieve what you wanted to.
What it 99% of the time comes down to is having the...... Read More
Date: 3rd March 2009
Subject: PUA Game Check List for Becoming an Alpha Male
Author: Kingy
In the community you will often have debates about direct or in-direct, social proof or just gaming one-one with the girl, your told not to wear pea cocking clothes because its lame or don’t use routines because they are fake.
Can you get every girl ? I have never seen it done and I’ve hung out with pretty much all the famous PUA’s around. What you can strive for is consistency though and to be able to attract the women you actually want and keep them, that is the life style.
Perfect game is having your perceived value just above the girls and escalating to close.
Think about this if Brad Pitt walked into the room, surrounded by women, wearing googles and a top hat and then started talking about his stripper ex girlfriend in conversation what do you think would happen? The girl would either think he’s a jerk or think he’s trying too hard. Yes I kid you not if the girl doesn’t feel like she is worthy of you then she wont open up because she has her own limiting beliefs to deal with.
This is why pea cocking only works on HOT girls and a lot of average girls wont give you the time of day.
The girl has her own limiting beliefs on what kind of guy she would feel comfortable with.
How do you make yourself more attractive? ...... Read More
Date: 18th Feb 2009
Subject: New Instructors available for bootcamp's
Author: Kingy
Hey guys,
Checkout the Instructors page for more details on who is available for bookings. We have two new recruits:-
Beckster: is Europe's Top Seducer / PUA, and needs no introduction. Beckster has been in the game for a whopping 11 years. You name it, he's done it.
Today Beckster is regarded by many as The Best Seducer in Europe. Currently based in London Beckster is a full time pick up artist trainer teaching on Workshops in UK, Ireland, Germany, Sweden, Finland, USA and Dubai.
During his long pick up artist training experience Beckster has developed numerous of effective pick up technique and routines such as:-
99% Opener - as the name says opens 99% of the sets
The Three Criteria Routine - lots of kino and kiss with in few minutes
21 Grams - kino and kiss close
And many others...
All material that Beckster teaches is his own and comes from his vast experience. Besides Pick Up skills Beckster is also trained in NLP (Nero-Linguistic Programming) and uses that knowledge in teaching.
He's a very busy man so book now to get a chance to see the best in the business in action.
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Max: A former Mystery Method Instructor who has been in the game for over 4 years, he has a wealth of knowledge and the most complete take on outer game you could find. I consistently see him wade into 'one girl many guy sets' and pick the girl up from under their noses.
Since coming back to London, Max has taught many more students in London, Glassgow and Dublin. As well as taking on private clients, he was also recruited as an instructor for PUA Training.
Since Max first began teaching, he has achieved the best student testimonials of any pick-up instructor in the world. Max achieved this by having the ability to demonstrate then break down and explain game to a student in fine detail, as well as being able to understand the real internal issue holding the student back from becoming amazing in this area of their lives.
Max specialises in Stripper game and hired-gun game, and he has achieved some impressive results in this area, having had several stripper girlfriends by the time he got this down. His game involves a lot of cold-reading. He also specialises in jealousy plotlines as well as peacocking in the right way to get results, and so can help a student achieve an attention grabbing style that works for them.
Please give them a warm welcome and take advantage of having access to their undeniable social skills, there is no grantee how much longer they will be around to teach. This is a once in a life time opportunity so book a bootcamp today!
Kingy
Date: 15th Feb 2009
Subject: The Correct Mindset to reach PUA Mastery
Author: Kingy
"To be a learner, you've got to be willing to be a fool."
To succeed at anything you must be willing to embarrass yourself, be considered try hard or foolish. Worrying about what other people think will stunt your learning path if not completely kill it.
The Five Main Points:
Point 1: Instruction - Find a good instructor to help show you the path, make sure he has had to walk the same path before and he is able to relay the way he did it back to you in a clear way.
Point 2: Practice - Regular practice, you should be looking to do at least 3 * 4 hours practice a week. The less hours you put in the longer it will take to reach a level of mastery.
Point 3: Surrender - Remove all outcome dependence, you are just training for the sake of improvement and learning, it doesn't matter on the outcome.
Point 4: Intentionally - Each training night should have a purpose and you should look to consistently push forward trying new techniques and theory.
Getting Energy for Mastery:
Point 1: Physical Fitness - If you were to train for the marathon would you sit at home and watch TV to conserve your energy? No absolutely not and its the same with anything, the more energy you use the more energy you get back. Maintaining a good level of fitness should be mandatory for everybody, join the gym today!
Point 2: Acknowledge negative but focus on the positive - It is important to look at what you can do to improve and sticking points but also focus on the good things you are doing. I recommend that for every set you tell yourself one thing that you did well in that set before you open the next one. This will help you improve a LOT quicker as you generally move to what you want, it will also remove AA because you will associate good things to opening sets.
Point 3: Try telling the truth - Telling the truth and not covering up things will give you more energy because you will be using less energy to cover up lies. Try this out.
Point 4: Set your priorities - Look at what is really important to you and write it down. You will get extra energy to go out and get what you really want. Happiness is a checked off list.
Point 5: Make commitments. Take action. - Just taking action and writing down goals helps a lot. Taking ACTION is the most important starting point.
Point 6: Get on the path and stay on it - Show yourself that you can achieve goals and become a winner. Doing this will make you believe in yourself more which will tell your brain to give you more energy.
Beware of Potential Pitfalls ........ Read More
Date: 28th Jan 2009
Subject: Sexual Intent Tip for SNL and How to Spot DTF Girls
Author: Kingy
Hey Guys,
This post is aimed more at the advanced gamers who have their opening and attraction game down and now are looking for same night f-closes rather than the dating game.
Lets cut the shift, time to fuck!
It's important not to forget why you are going up to talk to girls in the first place, is it just friends time or do you actually want to sleep with her? The sexual intent must be revealed.
The "sexual intent bomb tip" im going to give you today is something that has taken my SNL (same night lay) close factor from being fairly good to being ultra consistent. Why do you want to invest seven hours of your time getting to know the girl, inviting loads of logistical issues that will mess up the set before you can close the deal.
When you are out in a night club it is often possible to notice which girls are more up for SNL than other girls. Not all girls are up for SNL, some have boyfriends, aren't in that place or have strict rules that they don't change. A lot of girls are up for SNL though, probably a lot more than you think.
SNL girls usually will be...... Read More
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