PUA Blog
State Control PUA doing your best
Date: 11th May 2009
Author: Kingy
I did my best that is all that counts! Did you do your best though?
Imagine this scenario student approaches a girl but she blows him out and he come back all depressed. "I tried my best and its still not good enough."
I now put a gun to his head and say you are going to die along with all your friends and family if you don't approach her with all your enthusiasm in the most positive way you possibly can. Now Go!!
**Student comes back**
Student: cool that was a lot better.
Kingy: Do you think you could have approached her with even more enthusiasm and positive energy though?
Student: Yes Probably.
Well why??? I just said if you don't approach with all you can give then everyone you love including yourself is going to die. We need to talk :-)
You have one last chance but this is really it!! I want you to be in the most enthusiastic and positive state you can be when you approach this next girl.
Same scenario and the student comes back yet again telling me that he could probably approach even better next time.
You can always raise the bar higher depending on the state that you are currently in. The most important skill is state management, the information to pickup and how to open is all around the Internet, you don't even need that much of it.
Do you know someone that has something they need to change? They know they need to change it, they want to change it, they even know how to change it but they still don't change it!
This is the primary reason why the vast majority of people that come into the Pick Up Community don't manage to change themselves. Even if they manage to sift through all the community noise and find the correct path which exactly lays out how to get the success they want. Despite all of this they still don't manage to get the abundant lifestyle with women that they desire.
The problem is not lack of information: a known fact is that 80% of success is psychology and 20% is facts, and most people know all the facts that they need already.
As you change your physiology you change your state, in this example i told the student to approach in the most enthusiastic positive way possible. This meant he spoke faster, he was louder, he moved his body more, his eyes were wider, his smile was bigger and all those other mannerisms came into play. Not only did the interaction go better but also because he had changed his physiology from the slouched slow one from before to the now open confident enthusiastic smiling one his internal state changed too.
When coming back to me his state was more confident, happier, extra positive and now he can see ways where he can approach even better, again and again. You see where I am going with this? It is more advanced but ultimately simple, train yourself to manage your own state from within rather than relying on events.
This stuff is all covered in bootcamp, you are taught how to generate you own state for yourself at will (the click of a finger). So instead of going back home and then thinking damn i wish my instructor was here you don't need him anymore, its time to Rock! ;-)
Kingy
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